Originally Posted by
Seegtease
Of course not, when deciding if you want to spend your life with someone, they need to share basic values or it'll never work. It'd be like taking someone who is obsessed with cats and has a dozen cats and pairing them with someone who is allergic to cats or just hates cats. The relationship is not going to work. If you disagree with the very core of that person's nature, then why would you stay with someone for so long, or even consider a marriage? Honestly, I'm surprised it took you two years to work that one over.
But you shouldn't be bitter because of their stance. Not every issue can be overlooked or put aside or changed. Some things are just going to be dealbreakers. This happens to be one of them.