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[Deleted]

the "S" i was talking about doesn't stand for the "slave", nor for the "sub", sorry :P

If not talking about sadomasochism, then what?

[Sy]

If not talking about sadomasochism, then what?

oh, i am. just that it stands for exactly that: Sadist & Masochist xD
you just confused everyone with your "Master & Slave" talk!

[Deleted]

you only get to be an M, an S or a boring nothing.

so tell us.. what will it be?

What about a Y?

[Deleted]

oh, i am. just that it stands for exactly that: Sadist & Masochist xD
you just confused everyone with your "Master & Slave" talk!

Then I stand by what I said earlier

[pickley]

Guys, do you even want pancakes?

[Deleted]

oh, i am. just that it stands for exactly that: Sadist & Masochist xD
you just confused everyone with your "Master & Slave" talk!

But you can be both or neither

[BloodyAngel12]

You can be a masochist and a slave .....

I mean im gonna hide again

[Borfl]

Guys, do you even want pancakes?

[Sy]

What about a Y?

you're a boring person..

Then I stand by what I said earlier

so do i ;3

but maybe we should screw that "S" and "M" and instead refer to it as "sub" and "dom".. that might make things a lot simpler^^

Guys, do you even want pancakes?

we're having a serious discussion about a very important topic here, don't try to change it!

<.<

>.>

will there be maple syrup? :|

But you can be both or neither

sure. but it's more fun if you're leaning to one side^^

You can be a masochist and a slave .....

I mean im gonna hide again

there are few things so cute in this world, as a sub beeing embarrassed by their own sub-ness -- especially if they can't help but to notice that beeing embarrassed itself also feels strangely good to them; which, of course, is kind of embarrassing ^___^

[An-Tuirseach]

My current reaction to this thread.

[Deleted]

so do i ;3

but maybe we should screw that "S" and "M" and instead refer to it as "sub" and "dom".. that might make things a lot simpler^^

Usually (if not going into real extremes), the sub should be the one defining the boundaries after which it becomes "no". The line that should not be crossed, everything before that being totally up to the other person(s?), but if you cross it the game is over.
At least that's how I see it, and in my eyes it's even more important in terms of dominance in a relationship.

[Coffer]

I was told that you people have bad taste regarding Persona



Here, a remedy, it's on the house

[BloodyAngel12]

there are few things so cute in this world, as a sub beeing embarrassed by their own sub-ness -- especially if they can't help but to notice that beeing embarrassed itself also feels strangely good to them; which, of course, is kind of embarrassing ^___^

Are you reading my mind?

[Deleted]

you're a boring person..

So... I can't be G, A, or Y? :3

[pickley]

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You should care

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I was told that you people have bad taste regarding Persona

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Here, a remedy, it's on the house

Thats not Rise, or Chie....Try harder scrub

[Coffer]

Thats not Rise, or Chie....Try harder scrub

>Rise
>Chie
>good

shigdigs

[pickley]

>Rise
>Chie
>good

shigdigs

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[Sy]

My current reaction to this thread.

you should join, it's fun! \o/

Usually (if not going into real extremes), the sub should be the one defining the boundaries after which it becomes "no". The line that should not be crossed, everything before that being totally up to the other person(s?), but if you cross it the game is over.
At least that's how I see it, and in my eyes it's even more important in terms of dominance in a relationship.

oh, of course, i absolutely agree. which is why, as a dom, beeing able to completely trust your sub (to know and, even more importantly, communicate their own boundaries) is just as important as the other way round. i dare say the fear of it going too far when you can't completely trust the other is, generally, at least just as big for the dom as for the sub.

still, while acting inside those boundaries, the dom does not only have the right to command, but also the ability to decide upon how the the game is played, possibly in ways that surprise the sub. it's at these times that trust is especially important, as the pre-set boundaries might not necessarily suffice anymore; but through this also that the dom gets to act on their real power, whereas the sub is still expected (even if obviously not obliged) to follow.
a lot of fulfillment for both sides can come from this kind of situations. that's why the dom, a good dom at least, is still the master ;]

Are you reading my mind?

yes. and i know every single dirty little thought, feeling and secret going through your head.

So... I can't be G, A, or Y? :3

no.
but maybe somebody want to play a gayM with you regardless :P

[BloodyAngel12]

yes. and i know every single dirty little thought, feeling and secret going through your head.

Eeeeeeeeeep i promise i wasnt being naughty.

[Coffer]

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Heuristics?