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    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    oh, of course, i absolutely agree. which is why, as a dom, beeing able to completely trust your sub (to know and, even more importantly, communicate their own boundaries) is just as important as the other way round. i dare say the fear of it going too far when you can't completely trust the other is, generally, at least just as big for the dom as for the sub.

    still, while acting inside those boundaries, the dom does not only have the right to command, but also the ability to decide upon how the the game is played, possibly in ways that surprise the sub. it's at these times that trust is especially important, as the pre-set boundaries might not necessarily suffice anymore; but through this also that the dom gets to act on their real power, whereas the sub is still expected (even if obviously not obliged) to follow.
    a lot of fulfillment for both sides can come from this kind of situations. that's why the dom, a good dom at least, is still the master ;]
    I'll agree with you.
    Because I'm too submissive to argue

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    no.
    but maybe somebody want to play a gayM with you regardless :P
    Well, you got the joke, I'm happy. xD

    I'll be a S then!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mionelol View Post
    Usually (if not going into real extremes), the sub should be the one defining the boundaries after which it becomes "no". The line that should not be crossed, everything before that being totally up to the other person(s?), but if you cross it the game is over.
    At least that's how I see it, and in my eyes it's even more important in terms of dominance in a relationship.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    oh, of course, i absolutely agree. which is why, as a dom, beeing able to completely trust your sub (to know and, even more importantly, communicate their own boundaries) is just as important as the other way round. i dare say the fear of it going too far when you can't completely trust the other is, generally, at least just as big for the dom as for the sub.

    still, while acting inside those boundaries, the dom does not only have the right to command, but also the ability to decide upon how the the game is played, possibly in ways that surprise the sub. it's at these times that trust is especially important, as the pre-set boundaries might not necessarily suffice anymore; but through this also that the dom gets to act on their real power, whereas the sub is still expected (even if obviously not obliged) to follow.
    a lot of fulfillment for both sides can come from this kind of situations. that's why the dom, a good dom at least, is still the master ;]
    Too lewd!

    Too lewd!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pvt Hudson View Post
    Eeeeeeeeeep i promise i wasnt being naughty.
    it's okay that you were *reassuringly pets head*

    Quote Originally Posted by Mionelol View Post
    I'll agree with you.
    of course you do.
    because you're a good girl (´・ω・`)
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    Well, you got the joke, I'm happy. xD
    uhm, you're welcome^^
    I'll be a S then!
    really? as in dom?
    /highfive!

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    Too lewd!

    Too lewd!
    watch out, soon we'll do a group hand holding in here!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    really? as in dom?
    /highfive!
    Whatever you prefer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    you should join, it's fun! \o/

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    it's okay that you were *reassuringly pets head*
    Yay now to go back to reading "No Bra"

    "Would you please let me join your p-p-party?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Majad View Post
    Whatever you prefer.
    ...you're really bad at this dom stuff, aren't you? -.-^^

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    i sense some surpressed desires.

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    Yay now to go back to reading "No Bra"
    sounds like a good idea!

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    ...you're really bad at this dom stuff, aren't you? -.-^^
    Probably, since I have no idea of what dom means.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Majad View Post
    Probably, since I have no idea of what dom means.
    why-can't-i-hold-all-this-innocence.jpg @_@

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    i sense some surpressed desires.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Enzefik View Post
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    don't worry, it's fine.

    just remember that when you get bored of vanilla one day, there are always more, different and exotic tastes out there!

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    Good evening. How is everyone tonight?

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    ohaio!

    i'm good. chat thread tonight was very fun
    though i gotta go to teh sleepz nao, i'm afraid :/

    how are you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sy View Post
    ohaio!

    i'm good. chat thread tonight was very fun
    though i gotta go to teh sleepz nao, i'm afraid :/

    how are you?
    Good night Sy-chan.

    "Would you please let me join your p-p-party?

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    Hi Bran.

    I'm doing fine.

    You?

    Bye, Sy.

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    I'll care when there's a Teddie in Alice costume gif. Spinny Yukiko is tempting though.
    I MADE IT MYSELF


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    I'm doing well, thank you. I just got home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pvt Hudson View Post
    Good night Sy-chan.
    Quote Originally Posted by Majad View Post
    Bye, Sy.
    here Majad, read this. it should be quite educational for you, although you might want to take it with a grain of salt.

    and with this, i'm off. nini <3

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    Oh, that, I didn't thought it was that. ;p

    nini, Sy.

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