I only get mad if my BF doesn't call before he gets home from work and brings home fast food when I have already cooked dinner : /
I only get mad if my BF doesn't call before he gets home from work and brings home fast food when I have already cooked dinner : /
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My ex used to be like that. Especially if i was out with friends/partys or something like that without her. If i didnt call her, then the next day she would be angry and whineing. And if she called or texted me, and i didnt see/hear it. When i came home, she would be hysterical and crying, accuse me of cheating and that i prioritised friends/random women over her.. But she was also like this when it came to everything^^
I think its something to do with their immaturity. There are many who are "adults" and act this way still, but they are acting childish. My currrent girlfriend is not this way (yet), but she does keep and "eye" on me. But i dont mind, aslong as she doesnt blow everything out of proportion.
“The worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I hate that.”
The last time I dated was before there was texting, so calling or sending an IM was the only way to talk to my boyfriend before we lived together. I personally called my boyfriend when ever and we got into a routine where I called him at 9pm, we talked about our days and such and then I went to bed and he did whatever he was going to do. If he wanted to talk to me he either sent me an ICQ message or called me.
The only time I ever got upset with him not calling was if he was getting out of work at say 10 but went out with coworkers/friends without letting me know. One night he got out of work at 10, I called his phone line but no answer. He never called me either. I was worried SICK because he did not have a cell phone, had an old car and it was a Sunday night so most places were closed. I had no idea where he was. He finally came home at 2am and stated that he had gotten out late and he and a group of coworkers had gone out for a late dinner and sat and talked for a long time. I was pissed and relieved at the same time. He didn't call because he thought I was going to bed early. That was the only time that ever happened. Now we text each other if we are going to be home late from work/class etc.
I don't understand getting upset over someone not calling, if you want to talk to someone call them!
Not so much with just calling for me, just not talking to me for an extended period of time or not giving me any attention over an extended period of time is not pleasant, makes me think he doesn't want me. Kind of fear abandonment real bad, that he'll leave me. Been times where I've started crying if he's going to be away for a day or more.