Ill always take bonus points :P
I think your problem with pvp now is you do random bgs (if I remember right you said you don't do rated). There is so much gear disparity and botting that random bgs are far from fun unless you go in with a group, but that often devolves into spawncamping them.
3v3 on the other hand is either intense as hell or boring as hell. Against burst cleaves or hunters you are on your toes because they can randomly 1 shot someone or cc chain someone forever and you and your team have to be on your game. On the other hand you play comps like LSD that drain your actual soul while you play them because they turtle till dampening or try to kill every ascendance then go back to turtling. Its still crazy because theres so much cleave damage all the time and you are trying your damnedest to line up kills, but alot of teams play so defensive these days it kills the fun.