Well that's exactly where a lot of people don't agree! You want to get there and do what you set out to do, which I understand. For me though it's not about getting there fast that makes the game fun. I love it when it's way more chaotic. I want to get distracted on my way, I want to be ganked/gank someone and get a fight going. I don't want to gank and harass a single palyer for hours and call that world pvp, that's no fun for either side. I want people around that will flock to whoever is ganked and help them and not just fly above it all.
Now I understand that this isn't the way everyone wants it, but it's the way I like it and I would love it if the game was more too my playstyle. Yes it is selfish
But it's going to be selfish any way you look at it. I don't know how they can make both groups happy. They already have pvp and pve realms, but maybe the difference between the two isn't enough?