I'm guessing you will never understand that it isn't being stuck anywhere, or about rose colored glasses. It was a completely different design philosophy, it doesn't even feel like playing the same game. It isn't about either of those things, it's that some people just prefer the older style of MMO's. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Some people really like old cars, that doesn't mean they are stuck in 1967 or forget that some of those classics has some problems with them.
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Those were added in later. One the PvE server they had just released AV. The only raids there were was Ony and MC.