Cliche or is fucking inevitable if a guy knows a girl long enough?

[YUPPIE]

I watch and read a wide range of fiction and this always gets me. Childhood friends to initial gestures of mere friendship, it's so common a male character will inevitably get romantically involved with a female in a story. It's rare I see the guy get rejected outright I want to ask how it is in reality. If a man knows a woman long enough, has it been statistically proven that they can just remain friends? Do you have any experience with this?

[Nitros14]

Good bait.

[Dug]

Of course but I do think at some point or another you will develop some feelings but at that point you take a step back and ask yourself if its worth it to pursue it, it ends badly and you lost a good friend or never pursue and just stay friends. Or you can be like me and just do a FWB type deal instead of trying to date one another but even thats a fine line to walk separating sex from feelings.

[Super Friendly Kitty Cat]

I watch and read a wide range of fiction and this always gets me. Childhood friends to initial gestures of mere friendship, it's so common a male character will inevitably get romantically involved with a female in a story. It's rare I see the guy get rejected outright I want to ask how it is in reality. If a man knows a woman long enough, has it been statistically proven that they can just remain friends? Do you have any experience with this?

If there is an imbalance of sexual attractiveness, mostly from the woman's point of view, men and woman can be just friends.

Otherwise, but on some Barry White, pour some Courvoisier, light some candles and break out the handcuffs.

[Dug]

If there is an imbalance of sexual attractiveness, mostly from the woman's point of view, men and woman can be just friends.

Otherwise, but on some Barry White, pour some Courvoisier, light some candles and break out the handcuffs.

This tho if you're an ugly sob don't even bother

[Raptor With a Saber]

Known my sister and my mother for a long ass time now and we never had freaky kinky fucking.

[Deleted]

The longer you know someone and the better you actually get to know them, the less you want to have sex with them, in almost every single case.

[Cricket22]

I watch and read a wide range of fiction and this always gets me. Childhood friends to initial gestures of mere friendship, it's so common a male character will inevitably get romantically involved with a female in a story. It's rare I see the guy get rejected outright I want to ask how it is in reality. If a man knows a woman long enough, has it been statistically proven that they can just remain friends? Do you have any experience with this?

Speaking as a woman, I have more than a few guy friends I've know most my life. Sex will never happen. There has never been any chemistry between us, and never will be.

When I first met my husband, the chemistry for both of us was instantaneous.

[Super Friendly Kitty Cat]

Speaking as a woman, I have more than a few guy friends I've know most my life. Sex will never happen. There has never been any chemistry between us, and never will be.

When I first met my husband, the chemistry for both of us was instantaneous.

It's still a safe bet that those guy friends would still be open to laying that pipe down on you, with Barry White playing in the background and a trail of clothing towards the bed.

[Independent voter]

I watch and read a wide range of fiction and this always gets me. Childhood friends to initial gestures of mere friendship, it's so common a male character will inevitably get romantically involved with a female in a story. It's rare I see the guy get rejected outright I want to ask how it is in reality. If a man knows a woman long enough, has it been statistically proven that they can just remain friends? Do you have any experience with this?

You wait until you're both liquored up and a "mistake" happens that you'll never speak of again.

[hrugner]

I watch and read a wide range of fiction and this always gets me. Childhood friends to initial gestures of mere friendship, it's so common a male character will inevitably get romantically involved with a female in a story. It's rare I see the guy get rejected outright I want to ask how it is in reality. If a man knows a woman long enough, has it been statistically proven that they can just remain friends? Do you have any experience with this?

Personal experience, it gets weird after awhile unless the person is good friends with my wife. It gets a little boring having the same conversation with multiple women that no, I'm not attracted to them and don't know why they thought that.

No idea about statistics. I can't find anything with good methods that wasn't obviously researched and published for mass consumption rather than for further study.

[Super Friendly Kitty Cat]

You wait until you're both liquored up and a "mistake" happens that you'll never speak of again.

Bad advice.

With the influence of the Feminist WAAAAAAAAAAGH!!!, you will more likely be branded as a rapist because they believe if there are two equally drunk adults, the man can still consent and be responsible for his actions, but the women can never consent and never be responsible for their actions, hence it was rape committed by the man.

[THE Bigzoman]

I watch and read a wide range of fiction and this always gets me. Childhood friends to initial gestures of mere friendship, it's so common a male character will inevitably get romantically involved with a female in a story. It's rare I see the guy get rejected outright I want to ask how it is in reality. If a man knows a woman long enough, has it been statistically proven that they can just remain friends? Do you have any experience with this?

He can.

But it comes at the cost of his self respect self esteem etc.

That's why it's better to take everything or nothing at one point. Preferably sooner than late.r

[Deleted]

The longer you know someone and the better you actually get to know them, the less you want to have sex with them, in almost every single case.

Applies to marriages too.

[kamuimac]

I watch and read a wide range of fiction and this always gets me. Childhood friends to initial gestures of mere friendship, it's so common a male character will inevitably get romantically involved with a female in a story. It's rare I see the guy get rejected outright I want to ask how it is in reality. If a man knows a woman long enough, has it been statistically proven that they can just remain friends? Do you have any experience with this?

hm maybe but most of the time it would be a drunk adventure that at least 1 side will always regret - unless you plan to invest int relationship its usualy not worth the hassle and repercussions after - whenever i read a question like this i always think there is 1 side of such friend relationship who in fact want something more out of it but have no balls to try it and seek excuses just to not get burned if the other side will "friend zone" them forever and prefer to live in delusion that maybe one day something may happen if they wait long enough

[THE Bigzoman]

Speaking as a woman, I have more than a few guy friends I've know most my life. Sex will never happen. There has never been any chemistry between us, and never will be.

When I first met my husband, the chemistry for both of us was instantaneous.

Every one of those friends would lay it down the moment you make it known that you'd like to.

[Cricket22]

Every one of those friends would lay it down the moment you make it known that you'd like to.

Funny, My husband says the same thing.

[May90]

Instant rejection doesn't make for a good story. That's pretty much all there is to it.

[apples]

wait is this a tsundere thread or a rapist thread

cuse i have replies for both

[Deleted]

Funny, My husband says the same thing.

Because its the truth, your husband is a wise man.