My brother and I share an apartment. He has a low paying job, no car but pays his half of rent while i pretty much buy all the food because else he would have no money left..
He was recently offered a better paying job but don't want to accept it because it requires him to drive. Also don't want to drive a car for some reason. I think he is just so used to NOT driving. ( but wants me to buy groceries!.. ) I wonder what I can do to motivate him to do better? Get a better job, get a car, etc. All he does is sit on the PC and play games / watch movies. Also he has drinking problem, he is addicted to alcohol. he doesnt drink for 2-3 months and then starts drinking and cant stop for like a week. then quits drinking again for 2-3 months ( alcoholic? yeah i think so )
PS im 28 and he is 32.
What would you do in my situation? Any advice would be helpful.