Is this a scam or just iffy?

[Rooskie1993]

Yeah I've decided to not risk it, just going to ask her out in a public place or for her to bring a friend if she's that worried.

[Dug]

Yeah I've decided to not risk it, just going to ask her out in a public place or for her to bring a friend if she's that worried.

You need to ask to talk on video chat. If she won't even do that then it's not the real deal.

[BuckSparkles]

So I met this girl online and we talked a lot for about 2 weeks, found out she played dota 2 and watches a lot of pro games too. Anyhow ive spoken to her on voice chat etc I asked her if she wanted to go on a date since she lives 30 minutes away from me.

She is a porn model, and by this I mean she takes naked photos for sites and magazines but no sex etc. She has sent me multiple pictures nude and non nude and I know how to spot fake pictures from the usual fake accounts on dating websites. Now I know this sounds like one of those fake accounts on a dating website where they instantly try and get you onto websites and signing up before they meet but would they really talk to someone for 2 weeks just to get $100?

tl:dr met a girl online, spoke for 2 weeks (on voice), shes a porn model, wants me to sign up to websites to get verified first before meeting irl because she said she almost got raped last time she met someone online.


Usually I would just fuck these things off and block them but this is either unusual or very dedicated to getting $100, Shes also canadian living in australia.

Whole situation just seems a bit iffy but who talks to someone for 2 weeks on voice etc for this? Should I just yolo chuck away $100 on these sites and if all goes bad cancel my credit card and get the money lost refunded by my bank?

Scam Scam Scam.

Major Scam.

Do not fall for it. After spending enough time on dating sites, you start to become familiar with the world of scams and what they do. Some are obvious, some are less obvious, and some are devious to a point of being downright cruel. They will play on your kindness and humanity.

Some bots even go weeks before playing their cards. They all are scams designed to screw you.

See my sig. If it is too good, it is a scam.

Never underestimate the power of a horny and lonely male. These fiends understand this.

[Deleted]

So I met this girl online and we talked a lot for about 2 weeks, found out she played dota 2 and watches a lot of pro games too. Anyhow ive spoken to her on voice chat etc I asked her if she wanted to go on a date since she lives 30 minutes away from me.

She is a porn model, and by this I mean she takes naked photos for sites and magazines but no sex etc. She has sent me multiple pictures nude and non nude and I know how to spot fake pictures from the usual fake accounts on dating websites. Now I know this sounds like one of those fake accounts on a dating website where they instantly try and get you onto websites and signing up before they meet but would they really talk to someone for 2 weeks just to get $100?

tl:dr met a girl online, spoke for 2 weeks (on voice), shes a porn model, wants me to sign up to websites to get verified first before meeting irl because she said she almost got raped last time she met someone online.


Usually I would just fuck these things off and block them but this is either unusual or very dedicated to getting $100, Shes also canadian living in australia.

Whole situation just seems a bit iffy but who talks to someone for 2 weeks on voice etc for this? Should I just yolo chuck away $100 on these sites and if all goes bad cancel my credit card and get the money lost refunded by my bank?

Calling bullshit on this. Total scam, what a ridiculous thing to request "I was once almost raped so I am going to need you to make an account on this website before meeting up with me"

[BuckSparkles]

I would also like to add that these scam companies are smart, so they know the market for easy prey.

Currently, socially awkward, likely single GAMERS are a good target. I have observed this as more and more "profiles" seem to suggest they just -love- gaming.

Hot girl that seems cool and likes video games? Scam.

[alturic]

When something is too good to be true, it usually is.

What exactly is "too good to be true" in his post? I'm not saying you are (REALLY, I'm not, you just make it sound like it's too good to be true to have a sexy female be into someone?), but just because you might be pimple faced, living with your parents and would never have an extremely sexy female be into you doesn't mean everyone else has that same problem?

[Thetruth1400]

There's a sucker born every minute, and you're the sucker OP.

If someone insists you spend money before they're willing to meet you, it's a scam. Considering they run this scam on dozens of people at a time, the "$100 in two weeks" you talk of adds up fast.

If you really want to prove it's validity, Send "her" a contract for her to sign saying that you're willing to verify your account, but then when the scheduled meet up is, if she is a no show or not the person is the pictures as she's claiming to be, that "she" is fully responsible for repayment of your sign up fees. I'm almost 100% certain that you'll get back a "But don't you trust me?" style answer as a result.

What exactly is "too good to be true" in his post?

A sexy porn model sending him pictures out of nowhere and being all interested. "Her" willingness to send those pictures and engage in conversation, but "too scared to see in person unless he pays $100" is where the too good to be true comes in. Sexy woman contacting someone but too scared to meet up with someone else in a super public place unless they toss down $100? Yeah, screams scam all day.

[BuckSparkles]

What exactly is "too good to be true" in his post?

Porn model. Keeps up with video games.

That alone is a major red flag.

[alturic]

I'd ask her to get on Skype or send a verified photo first (like one with your name on her hand)

See, this is exactly what would up the ante in terms of being "real". Also, think long and hard, how did you guys find each other? Did you tell her you play games/watch videos first? Are you easy to find on Facebook/Twitter and gather all these stats? Shit, even at that, all she needs is your email most likely.

My point to the OP is that it's not instantly a scam, but the likely hood that it is, of course, is very high.

[thilicen]

Wait what, she wants you to pay 100$ to some website to verify that you're not a rapist? And you're here debating if she's trying to pull one on you? Well damn..

[Celista]

There's a sucker born every minute, and you're the sucker OP.

If someone insists you spend money before they're willing to meet you, it's a scam. Considering they run this scam on dozens of people at a time, the "$100 in two weeks" you talk of adds up fast.

If you really want to prove it's validity, Send "her" a contract for her to sign saying that you're willing to verify your account, but then when the scheduled meet up is, if she is a no show or not the person is the pictures as she's claiming to be, that "she" is fully responsible for repayment of your sign up fees. I'm almost 100% certain that you'll get back a "But don't you trust me?" style answer as a result.

Contracts are worthless if she's running a scam, it's probably a fake name and she's probably not in country. Suing someone via international means is very difficult, also expensive. Especially for $100. Scammers know this.

[Socialhealer]

lol scam, sign up to a fucking website for 100$, because this 100% stops you raping her.

just think logically for a fucking second without your penis in the equation, have a few wanks, empty those balls, and think about it again, maybe you'll see more clearly.

[BuckSparkles]

I think what we as males should do who deal with this crap, is start pulling the same crap in return.

Think you are dealing with a bot? Barrage them with pictures of junk of somebody else.

Then do the usual bullshit

"Why don't you trust me? Want to go to my website?"

[zenkai]

I feel $100 is a cheap life lesson but it looks like people gave you enough advice to get it for free.

[Celista]

Yeah I've decided to not risk it, just going to ask her out in a public place or for her to bring a friend if she's that worried.

Well I wish you luck, remember that love/lust doesn't come with a price tag and don't feel bad if she tries to make excuses/backs out because she's running a scam. Think of it as a learning experience, let us know what happens.

- - - Updated - - -

Shush guys. You are preventing natural selection from working.

He seems pretty determined, I anticipate he'll be paying her in some form or another in the end.

[BuckSparkles]

Well I wish you luck, remember that love/lust doesn't come with a price tag and don't feel bad if she tries to make excuses/backs out because she's running a scam.

Now now, this isn't true.

Difference between a scam and a normal gal? The girl makes you pay for her love -AFTER- the date, not before

[Celista]

What exactly is "too good to be true" in his post? I'm not saying you are (REALLY, I'm not, you just make it sound like it's too good to be true to have a sexy female be into someone?), but just because you might be pimple faced, living with your parents and would never have an extremely sexy female be into you doesn't mean everyone else has that same problem?

...have you read through the thread?

[zenkai]

Reminds me a of a time when I use to use yahoo messenger and some woman popped up flirting with me. She wanted to "cybersex" I told her I don't do that, pretty sure it was a bot or a person cat fishing me.

She started to cybersex me and then she eventually said

Woman: "I am taking our pants off, what would you like me to do next?"

Zenkai: "Put them in the washer and do my laundry"

*crickets*

I wish I could find the screen shot of that.

[Jotaux]

It's a scam. How would paying $100 verify yourself? Its not like a rapist and someone with $100 to burn are mutually exclusive.

I get random girls adding me to skype all the time. I usually apologize and ask if I know them from somewhere. Most just want to offer a free cam show, all I have to do is give a website my credit card info to verify myself lol.

[TITAN308]

Supposed girl has hit the jackpot industry.

There are endless waves of lonely gamer nerds with expendable cash.