Originally Posted by
Hyve
No. Refusing to change because someone else isn't changing, is also being unreasonable. You have to ask yourself about how you want to deal with that match, at the point in time. Sometimes when I play League of Legends, I really want to play a specific champion (I play Support), and it doesn't work well with my ADC. Tough. I want to play this champion, I'll do well at it, but I'm here to have some fun.
Other times, I'll work entirely with the team. I'll pick a champion that'll help us get the win, rather than me playing for my own selfish reasons. This is how games work. Someone, somewhere, has to bend over to get the job done, and at some point, most people will be that person. If everyone just plays fairly, nicely and co-operatively, everything goes fine.
But being staunch, and rude, is a problem. However, you not swapping to a different role, is being just as staunch and rude in my opinion. Just because they started it, doesn't diminish how pathetic you're both being.