Petty people doing petty things. Nothing to see here
You're not to think you are anything special. You're not to think you are as good as we are. You're not to think you are smarter than we are. You're not to convince yourself that you are better than we are. You're not to think you know more than we do. You're not to think you are more important than we are. You're not to think you are good at anything. You're not to laugh at us. You're not to think anyone cares about you. You're not to think you can teach us anything.
If you are heterosexual and proud of yourself, that's nice too. Pride, along with seeking acceptance, has a lot to do with accepting oneself. So there's room for you too. If you feel it's kind of a copout (like feminism solving male problems), that's understandable, but some other folks feel ok with that approach.
That said, ever since we passed equal marriage 10 years ago, the pride parades are becoming more of a tourist attraction. Very little protest, and a whole lot of merchandising. LGBT folks are developing a critical outlook into the commodification of it all. It's all kinds of fascinating and, I think, a whole lot more interesting than "what about heterosexuals" rhetoric: pink capitalism and critical pride.
Pride day is not just for the gay and trans folks, its also for the people who support us, its for life. Why do Cis people need a separate day to celebrate being a geneuine human being?
Quoted for mega truth.
In my 3 years of living in the US I was denied of voicing my opinion on certain matters by other people several times because "I was a hetero cis white male".
I didn't even know what the fuck "hetero cis" meant back then but I had the cancerous experience of finding out later that we almost have a new dictionary's worth of terms associated with sexuality. People sure like that attention.
Maybe we shouldn't call it a pride parade then.
pride
noun
1. a feeling or deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one's own achievements, the achievements of those with whom one is closely associated, or from qualities or possessions that are widely admired.
verb
1. be especially proud of a particular quality or skill.
"Name one place where it is illegal for a heterosexual to be themselves?" Name one place in the western world where it's illegal for homosexuals to be themselves.
Do you live in a country where it's illegal for you to be you? Then you need to get out of that third world country.
Oh for fucks sake... are people still really this insecure about gay people in 2016?
I don't need a day to justify that I like to sleep with my Wife. Whoever created this bullshit holiday can go shove it.
This bit comes to my mind, honestly..
I see a lot of that crowd he points out here too.
"The pen is mightier than the sword.. and considerably easier to write with."
That's the thing. Because some people in our community abused the system and decided to use homosexuality as their sole identity, we're now stuck in a tug of war between the real issues we're facing on a daily basis and additionnal hate from people who are tired of seeing it all over the news.
This wouldn't be an issue if we didn't still have to fight for our rights to live. Orlando shooting should never have happened. Well, actually no shooting should ever happen - but to be targetted by your sexuality is a very efficient way to create terror in a community.
Google Diversity Memo
Learn to use critical thinking: https://youtu.be/J5A5o9I7rnA
Political left, right similarly motivated to avoid rival views
[...] we have an intolerance for ideas and evidence that don’t fit a certain ideology. I’m also not saying that we should restrict people to certain gender roles; I’m advocating for quite the opposite: treat people as individuals, not as just another member of their group (tribalism)..
Never understood the idea of having pride in something you have absolutely no control over.
Your powers are useless on me you silly billy...
I have close friends who are gay and even friends parents that are gay, hell one of my good friends from years ago, both of his parents, father and mother were gay and it never bothered me because I have no seeded hate towards something that doesn't effect me in any way like the religious people who are against it. There is no logical reason outside of religion or someone being in the closet to hate gay people period.