Originally Posted by
Xarim
Maybe I'm going to break from the way people are approaching this topic by saying this
What if it doesn't matter if kids make you happier or not?
Look at the countries at the bottom of that ranking: USA, UK, etc - these are the more individualistic societies
Having kids is a quintessentially unselfish act, it is inherently anti-individualistic as the focus is the child and its happiness, and not the interests of the adults involved
Maybe this is why kids cause unhappiness in individualistic societies: they run counter to the ethos of the culture