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  1. #441
    Quote Originally Posted by pateuvasiliu View Post
    Cut the condescending crap.

    If you think masturbation is some training for the big game that's your business.
    Condescending crap?
    You just accused someone of not knowing how the male genital works, and then immediately proved that YOU are the one who doesn't.

    Look, you don't have to agree with anyone here. But honestly, take your time and explore your body a bit more before you make such claims. Unless you don't touch yourself for religious reasons (not before marriage, or whatever you call "the big game"..??).
    If that's the case then all the power to you, whatever you feel is right. But maybe you shouldn't lecture people about things you know very little about.
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  2. #442
    Quote Originally Posted by Malacras View Post
    Condescending crap?
    You just accused someone of not knowing how the male genital works, and then immediately proved that YOU are the one who doesn't.
    I'd say I know how it works very well.

    And yes, calling me young is condescending.

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    Good! The world is way over populated. Anything that slows down human reproduction is a good thing. If humans are not able to reproduce anymore, it will be a nice pleasant ride into extinction.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pateuvasiliu View Post
    I'd say I know how it works very well.
    Maybe yours is just broken, so what you "know every well" isn't representative.
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    Quote Originally Posted by YouAreWrong View Post
    You don't know that.
    Lol ok....

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    Quote Originally Posted by pateuvasiliu View Post
    I'd say I know how it works very well.
    I am sex-indifferent. Should I also say that I know how it works, based on my experience alone?
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    Quote Originally Posted by dd614 View Post
    It probably has more to do with sitting for long periods and not exercising than anything else.
    I'm more inclined to ^this theory.

    Nothing wrong with masturbating and watching porn once or twice a day. Sitting on your ass all day and doing nothing will get to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Malacras View Post
    Condescending crap?
    You just accused someone of not knowing how the male genital works, and then immediately proved that YOU are the one who doesn't.

    Look, you don't have to agree with anyone here. But honestly, take your time and explore your body a bit more before you make such claims. Unless you don't touch yourself for religious reasons (not before marriage, or whatever you call "the big game"..??).
    If that's the case then all the power to you, whatever you feel is right. But maybe you shouldn't lecture people about things you know very little about.
    Tbh he is right, if i focus on pleasure /masturbation i get done with it fast, without porn usually...showertime not sticky keyboards for me.

    As far as sex goes, i dont let myself get completely in the moment until my partner is reaching theirs, just think about odd things...what to cook for dinner, laundry etc.

    I can and will last longer than any woman, but when it comes to masturbation the guy you are arguing with is completely right, get it done fast and dirty. Mainly because a hand is not a man or woman, i could lose interest and end up with blue balls. (Yes while technically they dont exist, neither do headaches, your brain itself has no pain receptors, so yeah, it happens)

    Seriously had an argument with a girl who was upset i went to the bathroom after some heavy forplay, and she decides she wants to wait, and has the gall to tell me blue balls arent a real thing because...science...screw that!
    Still I cry, tears like pouring rain, Innocent is my lurid pain.

  9. #449
    Quote Originally Posted by Cold Aralon View Post
    Lol ok....
    are you really trying to say stimulating your prostate wouldnt feel good?

    gay guys dont just sit there and hurt if they arent on top.
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  10. #450
    Quote Originally Posted by Hubcap View Post
    This topic comes up from time to time on MMO-C. It's from a BBC show which I haven't seen yet but usually BBC shows are pretty well done. Common sense says it's not a good idea to use porn to the extent that you need it to get an erection. You can imagine a scenario where you have to look at porn in the bathroom and then run to the bedroom to have sex with your girl.

    Yes, I'm sure the vast majority don't suffer any problems but there are those that do.





    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/ar...d-bedroom.html

    More young men than ever are seeking treatment for erectile dysfunction because of their addiction to online porn, an expert has warned.
    Exposure to graphic images and films are desensitising men and leaving them unable to get aroused in the bedroom.
    Smartphones and tablets which makes porn accessible anywhere are to blame for the condition, a leading psychosexual therapist believes.

    Angela Gregory says she has seen a surge in young men attending her clinic at Nottingham University Hospital.
    She told the BBC: 'What I've seen over the last 16 years, particularly the last five years, is an increase in the amount of younger men being referred.
    'Our experience is that historically men that were referred to our clinic with problems with erectile dysfunction were older men whose issues were related to diabetes, MS, cardio vascular disease.


    'These younger men do not have organic disease, they've already been tested by their GP and everything is fine.
    'So one of the first assessment questions I'd always ask now is about pornography and masturbatory habit because that can be the cause of their issues about maintaining an erection with a partner.'
    The issue was exposed by a new documentary by the BBC's Newsbeat called 'Brought up on Porn'.
    Researchers spoke to a young man named only as 'Nick' who first started watching porn on a laptop aged 15.

    'My libido came back with a vengeance and I met this girl and it was great.
    'For the first time in ages I was able to flirt and within quite a short time I was able to have normal sex.'*
    According to a 2014 study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, one out of every four new erectile dysfunction patients were under 40.
    A new US study in the Behavioural Sciences Journal claims that online porn mirrors drug-like addiction qualities, leading to lowered sexual 'enjoyment' and diminished libido.
    The report added: 'The potential health risks of internet pornography are not as well understood as those for alcohol and tobacco use, and is widely portrayed as both ordinary behaviour and socially acceptable.'**
    I will admit that the women in porn who do what I want when I want are a lot more exciting than the ones that when you finally convince them that their vagina is not a gold plated alter of worship don't have a clue how to please you. However this does not cause me to be impotent, just saddened.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Immitis View Post
    are you really trying to say stimulating your prostate wouldn't feel good?

    gay guys dont just sit there and hurt if they arent on top.
    Isn't there a way to stimulate it from under your testicles? I feel like there is other ways to do it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kathandira View Post
    Isn't there a way to stimulate it from under your testicles? I feel like there is other ways to do it.
    There's a reason prostate exam is done anally. Stimulating under testicles might feel good, but it isn't affecting prostate directly at least.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter Blossom View Post
    The women in porn may be more "exciting" to you, but you should remember they're acting, and therefore you shouldn't compare them to the actual women you sleep with. It's not reality... women don't act like sex-crazed bitches in heat, obsessed with the mere thought of a penis.

    And really, the mans penis in porn is shown to be the most desired thing the woman wants - it's shown to be the "gold plated alter of worship" to the woman. She goes crazy for it, and that's what majority of men like/want to see. I'd argue that a lot of men also want women to react this way IRL when they unveil it to them.... so it can go both ways.
    Exactly.

    And in the case of non-sexual fantasy. The men in romantic movies who are the tall, buff, square jawed, tuned into a woman's emotional needs are acting as well.

    It is very important that people understand the difference between fantasy, and reality. While some of fantasy may be able to be encountered in reality, it is not what should be expected from each person.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter Blossom View Post
    And really, the mans penis in porn is shown to be the most desired thing the woman wants - it's shown to be the "gold plated alter of worship" to the woman. She goes crazy for it, and that's what majority of men like/want to see. I'd argue that a lot of men also want women to react this way IRL when they unveil it to them.... so it can go both ways.
    On the other hand, that demonstrates that men do care about a woman's desires. They want women to be receptive of their advances, and to enjoy the things that they do. They're portrayed as people, with feelings, not furniture. The portrayal is extraordinarily unrealistic, borderline insulting, but even in their private fantasies men want women to be more than mindless sex objects.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter Blossom View Post
    the women in porns are being so highly over-dramatic with their reactions (loud moans, everything sends her into ecstasy, etc)
    I find it pretty hilarious at times. As if giving head feels good for her. They moan as if they are the ones receiving, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter Blossom View Post
    Lol, right? It's so distorted in many videos.
    However, being vocal is nice all the same. So long as it is appropriate for the moment. Though sometimes, it can be funny. If she keeps asking me if it feels good, I will eventually laugh because of the repetition. Almost want to stop sometimes, roll over and say, "No, it feels terrible." Just to be funny. But you know...that could end up working against me, soooo I don't do that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter Blossom View Post
    I don't doubt that men want to please a woman and satisfy her, but because the women in porns are being so highly over-dramatic with their reactions (loud moans, everything sends her into ecstasy, etc), it sets it up so men then question why the women they sleep with irl aren't acting this way - "I brought the penis and I'm using it... why isn't she going crazy?".

    It's the lack of understanding that it's not reality - It's not how women act. As the user above had pointed out, if I read an erotic fantasy, and then go to my husband and question why he doesn't to act like the man in novel, he'll be quick to tell me that it an unfair/unrealistic view on men and that it's not reality. The same should be said when a man questions and expects why the women they're sleeping with don't act like the women they see in porns.
    Oh, I don't disagree at all, and there's certainly very unrealistic expectations being set for both men and women by their preferred pornographic material. Just throwing in a bit of my own perspective.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Winter Blossom View Post
    Yeah, it's funny how we put so much weight on moaning during sex.
    Any queue is good enough. Body twitching. Stretching. Moaning. Grabbing. Sending signals is important. I mean, you could just sit down and show each other what you both like and don't like. But you can call these signals in bed, "Learning on the job". If you pay attention to the queues, you will know what your partner liked, or wasn't too crazy about.
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  19. #459
    Quote Originally Posted by May90 View Post
    I am sex-indifferent. Should I also say that I know how it works, based on my experience alone?
    My junk works fine though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pateuvasiliu View Post
    My junk works fine though.
    Mine works fine too. No complaints!
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