'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
Yes, their first time is almost certainly going to be "disappointing" on both sides; however, the point of marriage is that two people work together to make all aspects of their lives successful. Marriage used to be actually be considered, with few exceptions, a lifetime commitment. Nowadays it's more disposable and the commitment is seriously lacking. If you truly love the person you've married and plan to be with them forever, then you should be more than willing to figure out how to be sexual compatible.
FYI, there is nothing stopping a couple who are dating from having conversations about their sexual desires to determine how compatible they are before actually having sex.
I know lots of people who believe in no sex before marriage... but then, I'm an evangelical Christian.
Seems like a lot of work... getting married and divorced for every one night stand.
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning.
-Kujako-
Seems like a massive waste of your life to abstain from sex before marriage. But meh, people do what thy please. I just think it is wasteful and foolish.
I am not religious in the least and do not know anyone personally who harbors such views as the OP related.
I never really understood the appeal of "having a virgin." It took me years of sex to figure out what I was doing, what I liked, and how to approach different women. I can't imagine having to work through that whole period with a girl that has no experience. I much prefer a girl who has had lots of sex and knows what she likes and isn't ashamed of it, isn't tentative or nervous about it.
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there always has been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that “my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge." - Isaac Asimov
There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there always has been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that “my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge." - Isaac Asimov
I waited due to religious reasons. My wife doesn't share my religion and had a couple partners before me. The first time was... not super great. Mostly due to nerves. We did have sex on our wedding night but we were so exhausted I'm surprised it happened. Anyway, the first time wasn't super amazing but now that we're several years in, it's much better. We were willing to discuss what we do and don't like up front and that's all that really mattered.
There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there always has been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that “my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge." - Isaac Asimov
There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there always has been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that “my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge." - Isaac Asimov