Originally Posted by
Tomatketchup
I've been in a similar position as the guy. I understand that after a while you can't be bothered, because the constant rejections, along with the general sense of frustration of not knowing what you're doing wrong because unlike, say, school or a video game, there's no real feedback on how to do things right. And so the frustration and anger builds up as you get more and more lonely. Hell, I used to stare into the wall thinking about how I'll remain lonely, while at the same time trying to get someone to like me. It came to a point where I had to go to therapy in order to deal with my loneliness.
Now don't get me wrong, I was very succesful at school. I had many good friends, both male and female. Generally, I lived (and now do live) a very good life. But judging from your replies, you don't know how it is to be a lonely guy. Being lonely eats you alive, because to some extent, it shows that no matter how many friends or how successful in school or business you are, there's that little thing at the back of your head constantly reminding you that you're not worthy of romance or love, because hell, if you're doing everything else right in life, surely there must be something really wrong with one, maybe even something irreperable, to not have a romantic relationship. Maybe you don't even deserve one.
If that sounds pathetic to you, it's because it is. But that doesn't make it any less serious. I had luck to meet a real player and become good friends with him who could help me out with women. Other men are not so lucky.