As a side story - I currently know 4 sets of couples that are Woman/woman in which one of the women have a kid and were at one point into men. To talk to them, the one with the kid wasn't really into women before, but when they met the other woman, there was just something about them that they liked and had them change preference. They are all in stable/ long term relationships, so I couldn't say if their preferences for what kind of women they like changes very often. I will say in 3 of those relationships, the woman without the kid has taken on what many would consider manly mannerisms. Short hair, dress like a boy, act like a boy etc
This is a lie. Those men they like because of status. As for beards, that's hit and miss. Women like men with confidence, the ability to be straightforward, to the point, take what they want (which is what manly really is). The package that's in doesn't matter as much to them as it does to guys, but obviously everyone has their preference and it does matter to a degree
Which is why men should care less about what women think, and more about what the women in their lives that they might be interested in think. Then again I guess that is a good general rule for all relationships.
Though I imagine that girls are attracted to muscular looking manly acting men more often than not. Just keep in mind that strong muscled and strong willed doesn't necessarily imply dim witted or unfeeling. I don't imagine there are a majority of girls who prefer somebody weaker over somebody stronger, nothing else considered. There are exceptions of course, but I don't see it being anywhere near the majority.
“Humanism means that the man is the measure of all things...But it is not only that man must start from himself in the area of knowledge and learning, but any value system must come arbitrarily from man himself by arbitrary choice.” - Francis A. Schaeffer
Can't get any manlier than as portrayed in this video:
(Sorry, best quality I could find... and it's awful )
It's not as if big buff dudes are inherently stupider than everyone else, but when you can go through life threatening and intimidating people to get your way, sometimes without even meaning to, then you don't really need to use your brain all that much to get by. Plenty of guys manage to buck the stereotype, but most can't, it's just human nature that you will do whatever others let you get away with.
he's actually a guy. i love transwomen, too. but there's a difference between trap guys and transwomen. trap guys might not want to transition into women, as such it's ok to call them guys.
i would never knowingly call a transwoman a guy, that's just fucked up.
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the second one is a trap, a male that makes their self look like a girl.