Look at yourself in a mirror.
With how readily available fight mechanics and guides are, you're pulling others down by not at least preparing for tacts by reading the journal in-game.
I learn by doing, but I still make sure to read and look at videos to get a heads up. Challenge should come from executing tactics as a group, not from first having to educate people that cba to be at least aware of mechanics beforehand. That goes double for pug groups, where you're working with strangers.