-Clear all your debt
-Do the big calculation on what you can afford
-Dont forget things like property taxes, HOA, garbage, or other things an apartment may have included
-Be patient. Dont put an offer in on the first thing you see
Consider a Townhouse with a small backyard just to have a place to keep your BBQ and sit.
The first house we bought was a connected two story with three bedrooms.
When we moved we kept it and rented it out. While being a Landlord does have some pains we tell ourselves how great it will be in 20 years to have that equity to roll into a retirement house.