Yea, I'm sure. Nothing says, "Hey guys, I'm getting all this action" like bragging about it on MMO-Champ. And yea, that 'friend-zone' thing? Invented by dudes that need a reason for not getting laid. Oh- just so you know, I'm married.
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You're talking to someone that thinks an abortion is functionally equivalent to taking a vitamin.
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I don't mean to spam, but it doesn't seem like anyone has answered my question from earlier. How can you educate into someone the kind of impulse control and inhibitions we're talking about being necessary for increasing use of condoms and safer sex? I mean listen to that phrase "safe sex" - the people having casual sex are the same types who want something more risky anyways so we've lost them already. It's pretty common for condoms to even be looked down upon both for their pleasure-reduction and the notion that it's "chaining the animal" in a sense.
I'm sure there's some example of this, maybe meditation exercises and mindfulness helps slow down the passions. But when it comes to passion, sex is the epitome of the uncontrollable lust that clouds our judgement.
Once again, giving a child up for adoption is often a worse choice.
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It's one that you are trying to enforce by allowing fathers to put a financial gun to the child's head in order to force the mother to either abort or adopt out. It's just one of the reasons that you're in the vast minority that see this as a flawed system- you're not really looking at the best interests of a child- you're trying to minimize your liability after leaving your semen inside a female.
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You start by having legit sex education. You back it up by not shaming peoples' bodies and desires, so that they are more open in regard to their needs. (I know a lot of parents that are adamant that THEIR daughter will not be 'some slut on birth control at 16!") Lastly, we recognize that we can only ever do so much, and that 'oopses' will happen, both from contraceptive failure and responsibility failure, and that when they do, we as parents and society need to provide support to the people affected so that the children that result can grow up, be educated, and make good or better decisions for their lives.
Right now, we rely on shame and condemnation for the most part, and we're reaping generations of fatherless children and cyclical poverty as a result.
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And there are just as many psychological problems with children raised by single parents, its just what you favour. I get it, you want to maybe adopt one, but that doesn't mean that being raised by adoptive parents is somehow worse then being raised by a single parent who cant afford to take care of you.
Unless you're talking about "The Loophole" (lol), it is impossible to completely eliminate the risk. Of course, you can reduce it to a lower percentage than we having of dieing by a hundred random mishaps, but yea.
Like, if she's on the pill, you properly use a condom, and go with a spermicidal lube, you have a better chance of being killed by a shark at your bus stop than creating a pregnancy...
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1) The reason the single parent wouldn't be able to afford to raise a child is because the father is a deadbeat that is busy chanting "Muh Rights!"
2) Adoptive parents don't sign 'non-divorce' guarantees.
3) Being a single mom isn't necessarily a permanent condition. I know an 'alpha' like you would never touch a woman that's been soiled by another man's seed, but, luckily, few are like you.
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Personally I think you overestimate the amount of people that "don't give a shit". The amount of casual sex happening at any one time in the US or any western country is mind blowing and not that many unwanted pregnancies are occurring. Generally people will put up with a little lack of sensation if it means no children.
...and some people are just really stupid and shortsighted.
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Right, a male should not have any choice, and is a deadbeat for not wanting to become a parent. Think your child wish is not making you see things clearly atm.
But is still better then the alternative, being a single parent from the start.2) Adoptive parents don't sign 'non-divorce' guarantees.
Then she should wait with having children until she found someone who wants to have children with her, just like males have to.3) Being a single mom isn't necessarily a permanent condition. I know an 'alpha' like you would never touch a woman that's been soiled by another man's seed, but, luckily, few are like you
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