Originally Posted by
Alfador
Exactly, but that's kind of my point. There's always going to be people like that, even at a high-ish level. People who claim they're up for a task, people who claim they're willing to do a job and just aren't willing to follow through. It's why even when I respect someone, even if I trust them, I still verify that they did what they said they were going to. If everyone always did what they said they were going to and always did what they were asked, nobody would even need to be fired from a job or kicked from a guild. Faith only goes so far, and I promise you outside of the absolute upper crust top 1% of guilds maybe, if nobody's verifying, if that threat of accountability isn't there, someone, probably more than one someone, is going to get cheap, lazy, or forgetful.
Very true, and of course it's not fair (in most cases) to let 1 get away with it and not expect a chunk of the group to follow suit. Holding everyone to the same standard just generally reduces group strain IMO.
This is a whole different, off-topic issue but quite simply, as long as people accept no, it's not a big deal. the problem is people don't. I've had people absolutely flip on me for me not giving them a piece of gear, and while I do often share gear, it's not unreasonable for someone to not want to give up potential disenchant mats or even just the vendor price of a piece of loot. I don't mind the existenc and use of the addon but let's not pretend the issue isn't any more complex than "just say no" when more than once we've had recounts in this very forum of people being kicked from groups, derailing runs, etc because they wouldn't share personal loot.