Originally Posted by
Actarius
I would consider myself "hardcore", along with most of my guild.
I'm at rank 29
3 Legendaries (can equip two)
400+ mythic+ dungeons
Exalted with all reps (done with most of those god damn WQs)
Rank 3 in all alchemy potions and flasks (except stamina and the tanking potion)
5 110 characters, lowest ilvl is 853, lowest AP rank is 20.
Not to be rude, but I believe my mage (primary alt) is farther along than you.
I wouldn't call you a hardcore raider. You're more of a casual raider. Most people on our casual team are around your level, 20-25 traits, 0-1 legendaries, few m+, most gear from raids, etc.
I know a lot of people have tainted the definition of casual vs. hardcore, but when I suggest you're leaning to the casual end of the spectrum, it's not an insult. You have different priorities/availability and cannot push the envelope as hard as you used to be able to. Or maybe you got used to WoD raiding and how little external effort was required, so you picked up activities in real life and now that WoW takes time like it used to, you're having issues keeping up everything you want to do.
To go through your points,
1) Everyone on my team has theirs. Some were pure luck and got theirs right away. Most of us farmed heroics until m+ dropped and did like 200+ m+ that first week to get ours. It's a grind if you're trying to get it early. You just need to throw yourself into the content until you get it.
2) At the absolute minimum, you need to clear the AP WQs each day, do your daily heroic, and clear an average of 2 mythics or mythic+ a day. On top of that, most of our raiders also go back and do normal for those big AP drops from EN. Clear more of the order of 50-100~ m+ a week (mainly higher levels since the AP nerf). I know it sucks but the end is in sight for many of us. I'm 6 traits away from being able to scale back and enjoy myself. 0.5% healing per rank isn't as big a priority as getting up to 35 asap.
3) I've made several posts that make generous assumptions on WF/TF chances and it still shows how abysmally unlikely it is to get an upgrade outside of mythic EN if all your gear is 870/875+. To put it in perspective, you'll need around ~735 mythic+2 (single chest) runs to see an 880 drop. I have one 875 and 1 880 from m+ chest drops personally. It's not something you're going to farm. If you want, push +10s within time, you only need around ~50 of those to see an 880. Mythic+ is mainly for AP drops for serious raiders, the odds of a substantial upgrade is too small from lower mythics. (Also note, these are very very generous numbers, this assumes a 50% to roll up each tier, if I lowered it to say 45%, it'll now take about ~1500 mythic +2 instead of ~735 to see an 880 - Blizzard themselves has stated its lower than 50%)
4) First off, +10 gives an 880, I know because I get it every single week. As I referenced in point 3, the only real advantage of farming infinite amounts of m+ is AP. The higher your avg ilvl goes, the worse and worse m+ become for gear. You're not really doing them for upgrades, you're doing them for AP and hoping for a legendary/upgrade, but knowing the chance is like 1% at best. If you're looking for gear, you focus on mythic+10, you cannot carry this difficulty yet, so there is a very real limitation on how many you can do. Our roster is 24 people, let's say we can all clear up to +12. That's 72 runs at best, and you're not going to be able to get into all of them; if your friends list contains people who can push 10+, they're most likely doing that in a guild.
I agree raiding has a lot more to do outside of just raiding. It's a major change of pace from WoD, and even more time consuming than MoP/Cata. But this is the price we pay for wanting to be hardcore and pushing those extra few %.