I agree.
There is a difference between a skilled player and a good player.
Skill is the ability to perform.
Being a "good" player is about how you interact with others.
You can be one, both or neither.
Any player, skilled or not can contribute positively in their own way.
Be it teaching other players, or just taking the time to help another random player out.
I look up to a player because of how they act towards others, not because of their item level.
I really worry about the mental state of those who have to demand recognition, who keep pushing their "proof" of superiority.
Go do the hard content for your own reasons, not for other people.