Would you date/pursue a relationship with someone who...

[OperationFerret]

I did date an escort for a year or so and it was fun because they were open to doing all sorts of kinky stuff but on the long term? That might be more difficult.

[Christan]

Possible if they were upfront about it, absolutely not if bareback though, don't need std's.
But also they'd have to have a good mind...ofc body would high already (ehh maybe) if in that industry, but some of the men/women i've seen in porn are idiotic as hell (maybe it is just voice acting, but it turns me off) i really dislike valleygirl english, worse than someone trying to talk ghetto even.

I wouldnt know until i was put in that situation. Not looking though so would never happen

[Spiral Mage]

Kind of curious to see what others views on this would be

Question is, would you date a person who works in the adult sex/film industry, it could be as a pornstar, camgirl, escort, stripper.

2nd part of the question is, if you didn't know until far into the relationship would you continue seeing them once finding out (assuming you're already in love as well).

3rd Part is, with pornstars and escorts they're paid to have sex would you be ok with knowing your partner is/was doing that?

1: Yes I would but it depends heavily on the girl.
2: Yes if we have been doing very well and have been happy.
3: Yes because there's sex and there's emotions. Neither has to include the other.

[LoLcano]

nope never

[starlord]

i guess i wouldnt mind that they were in that industry in of itself, rather how he intended to progress a career out of it.

[Calfredd]

No because the people involved in adult industries are all satanists.

Oh crap when did you come back?

[MAGAmobile]

We get these threads at least 3 times a year. Most people say no.

[Dontrike]

Kind of curious to see what others views on this would be

Question is, would you date a person who works in the adult sex/film industry, it could be as a pornstar, camgirl, escort, stripper.

I would totally date them, but they would 125% not date me.

2nd part of the question is, if you didn't know until far into the relationship would you continue seeing them once finding out (assuming you're already in love as well).

Yes I would, but again they wouldn't date me even if my dick was made of $100 bills.

3rd Part is, with pornstars and escorts they're paid to have sex would you be ok with knowing your partner is/was doing that?

No, but then again they aren't dating me so it's okay.

[ranzino]

C'mon, your future partners for sure were all engaged more or less, therefore were having sex with other men (or women). Their former partners might have nude pics of her or even a "private movie". Where do you draw the line ?

If you are not ok with porn stars, so be it. But there are a lot of cam gilrs who are not shy either, but just without real actions with a man in front of the cam.

[Segus1992]

No because the people involved in adult industries are all satanists.

Better that than Christians.

[ranzino]

Better that than Christians.

Sort of harsh, as most people consider themselves christian more or less.

[Segus1992]

Sort of harsh, as most people consider themselves christian more or less.

I wouldn't date anyone who does anything because the Bible tells them to. We're talking about preference, right? People also don't date fat people, they're still allowed to voice their opinion.

Also note that I'm not an American, so this is very rarely an issue for me.

[ranzino]

I wouldn't date anyone who does anything because the Bible tells them to. We're talking about preference, right? People also don't date fat people, they're still allowed to voice their opinion.

Also note that I'm not an American, so this is very rarely an issue for me.

Ok, the more stricter bunch of them. Avoid them at all costs ! And of course you are entitled to choose.

[Segus1992]

Ok, the more stricter bunch of them. Avoid them at all costs ! And of couse you are entitled to choose.

Well mostly that yeah, but really if you do anything at all simply because the Bible tells you to (and not because of morals, intelligence, all that shit), you don't qualify, is what I mean.

[The One Percent]

Cam girl or girl on girl only pornstar - I could date
Stripper - Eh not likely
Anything else - I don't need to lower myself like that

[Mihalik]

Cam girl? Don't care. Stripper? Depends on a number of things.

My current girlfriend has stripped, sort of. A bit more context. She would occasionally go-go dance on weekends or summers at night clubs or concerts to supplement her income. But she would also sign up for things like medical trials (just stuff like Ibuprofen related research) among other broke ass student jobs. She also did Showgirl stuff at conferences and car shows and stuff.

She is a final year industrial engineering student, so she isn't doing any of that now as she has a part time research job. But she admittedly did a couple of shows where she would dance naked. Not outright strip show, just dancing naked in clubs (total of 3 events, 2 of which were LGBTQ related). That stuff I personally don't care about, nor would I care if she really would want to do it again, tho she is pretty happy that she doesn't need it now. Despite of what people think that sort of dancing is pretty much a highly physical job, or with showgirling it is standing around for hours on end for shit money, putting up with morons.

Now stripping in some sleazy strip joint...that's another thing.

And porn or escort...no and no. If it's something she has done in the past, but changed careers, that I don't mind at all. But couldn't be with someone currently active in those businesses.

[Trassk]

*Shrug* sure, if they were careful and got tested often, it wouldn't bother me if someone I loved was in the porn industry, I just don't get jealous at the idea of it.

[Deleted]

No, I have standards and I'm not remotely desperate.

[NineSpine]

As someone who has exclusively been involved in open relationships for the last 15 years, I wouldn't really care at all. The notion of caring about that is actually kind of odd to me now. It feels controlling and petty. I can't see concern over things like that as anything more than expressions of personal insecurity, unless of course the concern is genuinely and simply over issues like disease transmission. I'd consider that a bit overblown, but not irrational.

[Spectral]

Date? Probably, if I were ever single again.

Definitely no relationship though, for a variety of reasons. The only one that's really relevant is that I don't think I'd enjoy it and I don't feel any particular need to try to force myself into being OK with something that I'm not OK with.

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As someone who has exclusively been involved in open relationships for the last 15 years, I wouldn't really care at all. The notion of caring about that is actually kind of odd to me now. It feels controlling and petty. I can't see concern over things like that as anything more than expressions of personal insecurity, unless of course the concern is genuinely and simply over issues like disease transmission. I'd consider that a bit overblown, but not irrational.

Not wanting your partner to fuck other people isn't "controlling and petty". That's a ridiculous claim.