Calling people elitist who would not cater to griefers the elitists is comical. Found the griefer who is more than likely the griefing DPS that pulls ahead of tanks. Tradition forum behavior would be calling you the elitist.well one way is to act like an elitist jerk, like the gentleman two posts above you or the other one 4 posts below you.
At ComputerNerd. Had a tank that announced that they was new. Helped explain to them the pulls and praised them on job well done. They acted surprised that people was helpful. Made me feel sad that such was their response when my behavior for me was common from others as well. Run went well and parted our merry ways. Two dungeon runs later I encounter a tank that demanded the DPS to announce their DPS possibilities or they would AFK. I initiated a vote kick which passed and the group went on. Ah, random queue. Still glad I have instant vote kick ability.