Let me correct you - before the nerf it was 4 minutes, now it is 5 minutes. Please keep up with the changes
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People who have cleared normal, play for lulz should have at least 850 gear by now. By the looks of it the people in your guild who have killed ToV's 1st boss have 860ish.
I have 863 gear, I log during weekdays for my 3 raids only (of which the last one offers me nothing cause I will be loot locked anyway). Outside of that over the weekend I play maybe between 6-8 hours, while doing maybe 1 m+ with 1 affix only. Please don't tell me that getting 850 even for someone who plays the game for fun is hard.