every day I see the most stuck up women call men creeps behind their back because they give them a compliment. just say thankyou you dirty hoe ant no one looking to be your sugar daddy
every day I see the most stuck up women call men creeps behind their back because they give them a compliment. just say thankyou you dirty hoe ant no one looking to be your sugar daddy
Eh just be mysterious, I guess. And flirty, not necessarily nice.
I think its a little dishonest if it takes the current arranged marriages as model, since most of the culture doing so, also highly discourage divorce, while we pretty much encourage it when a relationship is no longer pleasing. Hell go back to the time of my grand parents, nobody was forced to marry anybody, yet less divorce, it had more to do with the fact that divorce was frowned upon and vilified.
There has really never been a stable and productive society that featured polyamory, not among the general population (kings and hollywood celebrities are no guide for what a society is generally like)
Monogamy is actually a fairly elegant way of pairing off the population into stable families where each unit has a stake in the common good and the safety and prosperity of the society
We may have to find a new tinder-friendly way of doing things in future - or indeed maybe we go back to the old ways of monogamy
But concubines and polyamory? Eh, I don't think so
Because there must always be losers in life. And since women hate the passive, they will never be a winner. Alas, this condemns myself to the same fate.
This is kind of a myth that human were ever that big on Polygamy in general. Humans were more about moving from one partner to the next. I think we are kinda back there in the west? We were never like lion pride with a huge male with the territory, the only part were alpha male ever existed is for leadership of groups. Males of the same groups cooperated all the time. We are more similar to bonobos, but with even larger group cooperation and just like bonobos, we tend to tie to a single person for a certain amount of time and then move on to another.
So youre saying nice people are incapable of being assertive? You guys are nuts.. Its like you learned about what it is to be a man from TV and movies alone.. And just to make it clear, this isnt A Brave New World, and we're not a pack of wolves, its never as cut and dry as alpha, beta, omega..
How about.. Just being yourself?..
Bonobos can cheat on each other too, hell they can have dispute and such. Bonobos are pretty nice to know ancient humans pattern really. Polygamy is more about the pleasure vs emotion here. I personally dont think id be able to love 5 wives at the same time, theyd be more like servants than wives, hence its more about my pleasure than emotions. Id probably bound with one of them and she would be my number one lol.
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I dont think this is anytime soon, mabye when we are all cyborgs and the body no longer matters lol. Even with all our current freedom, human always seems to prefer to be intimate on a pretty exclusive level. (I did not say sex). Intimacy on that level with many people at the same time seems pretty awkward for most, myself included.