You should try getting over your own bias to look at reality. It would help a lot.
In case you're actually willing to look at reality: the electoral system, as it stands, gives a larger proportional vote to smaller states, similar to the manner in which the Senate gives a larger voice to smaller states. However, in states with a large majority of members in a single party, the members of the opposing party effectively have no voice. For instance, in
California and New York, republicans have effectively no voice in the presidential election; those states always vote Democrat, and since the state's majority favors the Democrats, that's how the electoral votes go. No consideration given to the republican votes.
In relation to the actual question asked, @
Didactic: The actual issue comes down to State vs Federal rights. Those who favor the rights of states believe that each state should have the right to choose how to run their own affairs, but still be bound by common federal laws; ostensibly, each state should then be equal in the union, because each state is conducting their own affairs. If a small state has the right to choose their own laws, for example, it's unfair for a larger state to have a larger voice in an election that will have very real consequences for the small state.
(Of course, I personally favor Federal rights in anything that's not purely regional, for a variety of reasons... but getting into that discussion would probably be off topic even more. Suffice to say, I would prefer a popular vote to the electoral college, and if we simply revised the electoral college I would favor some manner of proportional representation.)