And all I did was question your reasoning for acknowledging it in the first place with the argument that you knew people could respond to it in any way they wished. Your response was that you "did not expect it" and I responded by again noting that, being an open forum, claiming "you did not expect it" makes no sense.
Again, it's just your idealism and my practicality. You're speaking that people "should" treat each other better, which I have no problem with, but I'm speaking about being realistic in assuming that, by putting your work out on an open forum, you open it up to any range of reaction.
Saying people shouldn't treat each other with respect is different from saying that one should expect potentially negative comments. I feel this is where you seem to misunderstand me. I at no point said it's not preferable to have courteous discussion. I said that you put your self in an environment where you have no control over whether people respond courteously or not. Therefore you cannot say with any confidence that you did not expect negative comments, and because of that, it has little meaning to bemoan receiving negative feedback, as it's out of your control.
You seem to think that I am endorsing negative behavior when all I'm saying is that you have no control over it. Don't draw idealism into it. The entirety of my argument is, did you have a way of knowing what the reaction will be, yes or no. If no, I don't understand why you feel the reaction itself is worth acknowledging, as you had no control over it in the first place. If you're trying to argue that you expected people to treat you nicely, I'm looking for the logic in that.
All that feel good "people should be nice" idealism is great, but it's unrelated to what I'm saying and I made no comment on it whatsoever. You repeatedly try to associate my argument with some deeper commentary on how people should interact with each other when I'm just questioning why you said "I didn't expect this behavior".
TL;DR: It's futile to complain about the demeanor of others when you're putting your self out for anyone to judge you. In what way can you "not expect" a certain reaction when anyone can say anything they want about your work? What logic is there in assuming it will all be positive? Saying people should treat each other courteously is irrelevant and I'm not saying anything about how people should act. Idealism about proper human behavior doesn't challenge the notion that this is an open forum where people can say, within certain boundaries, what they want, whether it is positive or negative.