Don't you have frogs to yell at?
People are slamming others for their own bias and perception, which is ridiculous. Another person is not to blame for how you perceive them or what they are saying but only for what they actually did say. It means they have to prove to you (why the heck would they even need to) that they aren't the things you accuse them of (turning the entire thing on it's head) based on parameters and within confines the person who expects them to do so has made up based on absolutely nothing but personal bias and can change at any time.
It is inherently impossible to do so and should NOT be induldged in the slightest. They make the accusation, they are the ones who have to prove it. Till then one should wholly reject induldging them as it only strenghtens their point and will be turned on it's head. "You are defending yourself, WHAT ARE YOU HIDING?". "Well, if you aren't why did you feel the need to respond to me?"