Who doesn't watch porn?

[Spectral]

If you are married and have career good luck with the shag lol

I don't really know why people say this. On average, married people have a lot more sex than single people. The idea that people who love each other are basically guaranteed to stop wanting to fuck each other at some point seems like some serious sour grapes shit.

[Kraenen]

I don't really know why people say this. On average, married people have a lot more sex than single people. The idea that people who love each other are basically guaranteed to stop wanting to fuck each other at some point seems like some serious sour grapes shit.

Seems a bit like Madonna Whore Complex

[Spectral]

In my experience, it seems to be a bit of meme among lower income and more conservative males, who seem to have generally unhappy relationships in which they treat their wives or girlfriends like children and struggle to figure out why there is hostility in the relationship.

Yeah, I'm not sure who decided that perpetuating the idea of "wives hate having sex with their husbands!" was a good idea, but it definitely seems to play to people who have stopped being attractive to their partners and aren't any good at fucking. This is definitely an idea that seems most common among a subset of shitty, low-class husbands. I don't think it's just about conservatism though - this definitely isn't the message that's pushed by Evangelicals and other deeply religious people.

[TrumpIsPresident]

7 out of every 8 bits of data moving through the interwebs is porn*

*estimation

[Moralgy]

I've watched two porns in my life. One was as a joke(thundercrack) and the other was something my friend said I might like. Thundercrack was fun for a bit making dick jokes, but the other was like "why am i watching this?"

I just don't watch porn at all, not against it, I just don't care for it at all.

[Fencers]

If you are married and have career good luck with the shag lol

I have always had a fairly health libido to be quite honest. Having had my first sexual experiences well before high school and by the time I started HS i had full intercourse... a lot. To be conservative.

Sex is still my favorite thing/activity and I am getting kinda old by now. So it seemed to me rather interesting films and television when I was young often played up the idea that married people had less sex than single people.

The whole "I have a headache!", joke was very popular in the 80s. So much so that one day, back when I was young, I asked my mom if it were true once you get married you don't want sex that much. To which my mom laughed in my face. Then said, "No, but sometimes you get busy with other things. That's what quickies are for."

I was mostly puzzled by that answer for most of my life. Sex is awesome, why would you want less? I continued on with my enjoyment of sex through my teens and 20s. Then one day I got married.

For a long time nothing changed- sex was still awesome, I still wanted to fuck most of the time and so forth. Kids happened and finally I understood what my mother meant like 20 years earlier in our kitchen.

I don't know any married woman in a reasonably good marriage who is not getting banged on the reg. So to speak. It might not always be romantic, a marathon of orgasmic pleasure or an exploration of the Kama Sutra... but I would reckon most married women have access to the D to such an extent they are kinda exhausted of it already.

Tiredness happens, for both men and women. Especially when kids physically wear you down to near collapse. But chances are pretty high I'm gonna get laid sometime in the middle of the night or before I even brush my teeth in the morning... most days.... everyday actually.

[Zafire]

I watch porn every day I don't have sex, which is probably 4 to 5 times a week. My libido is outrageous though, and I don't blame my girlfriend for not wanting to fuck every day. I've found having sex 2-3 times a week ideal anyway, I get a lot more free time when I just watch porn.

[Hey There Guys its Metro]

A lot of women don't have the same sex drive as other women and men in general but even those that do probably rarely watch porn. Otherwise, its a very wide question to be answered. No easy way to do so.

[Sky High]

watch? no, I can't really get into how fake it looks/feels with porn actors. looking at it though? I'm looking at some right now.

[Fencers]

Yeah, I'm not sure who decided that perpetuating the idea of "wives hate having sex with their husbands!" was a good idea, but it definitely seems to play to people who have stopped being attractive to their partners and aren't any good at fucking. This is definitely an idea that seems most common among a subset of shitty, low-class husbands. I don't think it's just about conservatism though - this definitely isn't the message that's pushed by Evangelicals and other deeply religious people.

I think the notion comes from the more sexually repressed 50s and early 60s. Where women had the social expectation to be heterosexual, chaste until marriage and indulgence in sexual pleasure was less open. So this resulted in a lot relationships and marriages that were 'icey' sexually speaking.

I feel that was the case with my (mom's side) grandmother and father. Who loved each other a lot but weren't really into each other in terms of sex.

My dad was from Spain, his mother and father liked to fuck. They had tons of kids. My memories of them were as old people, but very flirtatious and loving with each other- grandpa was always kissing grandma, they embraced constantly and so on.

My mom's parents just about would handshake on new years. I saw them kiss once, ever. They had just 2 kids.

Meanwhile both my parents had their heyday in the swinging 60s and especially 70s. 1970s New York City to be exact. My sisters and I grew up in a household where sex was spoken about openly, honestly and we were encouraged to take ownership and pride in that aspect of our humanity. A totally non-religious household- both my parents were atheists.

I grew up in the 80s and was a young adult in the 90s. I didn't have the baggage of social expectation that my mother's parents did, but rather I grew up with sex positive parents from both a counter-culture and European background view of sexuality.

[Deleted]

If you are married and have career good luck with the shag lol

shag your wife

[YourExWife]

I only watch porn when I'm feeling lazy.

If I really want to get off, then I need something more; a scenario, provocative imagery, accessories... a good climax always takes time to build to, and doesn't necessarily require a direct view of two strangers grinding their meat to achieve.

[Deleted]

I don't, I have become immune.

[Leih]

In video form? Very rarely.

In story or picture form? Pretty often, but most of those times not actively seeking it.

[Spectral]

I think the notion comes from the more sexually repressed 50s and early 60s. Where women had the social expectation to be heterosexual, chaste until marriage and indulgence in sexual pleasure was less open. So this resulted in a lot relationships and marriages that were 'icey' sexually speaking.

I feel that was the case with my (mom's side) grandmother and father. Who loved each other a lot but weren't really into each other in terms of sex.

My dad was from Spain, his mother and father liked to fuck. They had tons of kids. My memories of them were as old people, but very flirtatious and loving with each other- grandpa was always kissing grandma, they embraced constantly and so on.

My mom's parents just about would handshake on new years. I saw them kiss once, ever. They had just 2 kids.

Meanwhile both my parents had their heyday in the swinging 60s and especially 70s. 1970s New York City to be exact. My sistersister and I grew up in a household where sex was spoken about openly, honestly and we were encouraged to take ownership and pride in that aspect of our humanity. A totally non-religious household- both my parents were atheists.

I grew up in the 80s and was a young adult in the 90s. I didn't have the baggage of social expecatation that my mother's parents did, but rather I grew up with sex positve parents from both a counter-culture and European background view of sexuality.

Yeah, this is interesting, I think there was a tweener period (and, of course, Victorian times) where people didn't see sex as a positive thing. This definitely hasn't been the historical norm or even a consistent religious ideal - there's all sorts of writings and teachings of old replete with people being conservative about wanting sex to be within marriage, but being wildly enthusiastic about sex within marriage. Not to Bible thump (I'm an atheist), but this verse is one that I've heard cited a lot:

The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.

The obvious reading of that is, "y'all need to take care of your partner and not be selfish". I can pretty heartily endorse that. Granted, there will be exceptions, but most of the time, it's not that hard to go from "not in the mood" to interested . Of course, that requires both partners giving a crap about each other to ensure that it's actually rewarding, but this too shouldn't be all that hard.

Like mention with the ol' Spanish couple, people that historically speak the romantic languages in Europe aren't exactly known for being sexually repressed. For a long time, pretty much everyone understood that consistent fucking was an important part of a good marriage. The curdled vision people of marriage as sexless and miserable is really a disservice to society.

[Arthas242]

25 and i have never watched porn in my life.

and never will.

[Deleted]

I have always had a fairly health libido to be quite honest. Having had my first sexual experiences well before high school and by the time I started HS i had full intercourse... a lot. To be conservative.

Sex is still my favorite thing/activity and I am getting kinda old by now. So it seemed to me rather interesting films and television when I was young often played up the idea that married people had less sex than single people.

The whole "I have a headache!", joke was very popular in the 80s. So much so that one day, back when I was young, I asked my mom if it were true once you get married you don't want sex that much. To which my mom laughed in my face. Then said, "No, but sometimes you get busy with other things. That's what quickies are for."

I was mostly puzzled by that answer for most of my life. Sex is awesome, why would you want less? I continued on with my enjoyment of sex through my teens and 20s. Then one day I got married.

For a long time nothing changed- sex was still awesome, I still wanted to fuck most of the time and so forth. Kids happened and finally I understood what my mother meant like 20 years earlier in our kitchen.

I don't know any married woman in a reasonably good marriage who is not getting banged on the reg. So to speak. It might not always be romantic, a marathon of orgasmic pleasure or an exploration of the Kama Sutra... but I would reckon most married women have access to the D to such an extent they are kinda exhausted of it already.

Tiredness happens, for both men and women. Especially when kids physically wear you down to near collapse. But chances are pretty high I'm gonna get laid sometime in the middle of the night or before I even brush my teeth in the morning... most days.... everyday actually.

Your writing style makes it easy to get excited about sex. Maybe one day, someday, in the near future Ill consider getting intimate again (instead of jus keeping it to fantasies)

[Fencers]

Your writing style makes it easy to get excited about sex. Maybe one day, someday, in the near future Ill consider getting intimate again (instead of jus keeping it to fantasies)

Well, thanks I suppose. Everyone should be excited by sex. It's great. Best of luck to you.

[JohnBrown1917]

25 and i have never watched porn in my life.

and never will.

So you're asexual?

[Unholyground]

I don't really know why people say this. On average, married people have a lot more sex than single people. The idea that people who love each other are basically guaranteed to stop wanting to fuck each other at some point seems like some serious sour grapes shit.

I like jokes, do you like jokes? lol