Who doesn't watch porn?

[derpkitteh]

Your writing style makes it easy to get excited about sex. Maybe one day, someday, in the near future Ill consider getting intimate again (instead of jus keeping it to fantasies)

do you just not seek anyone out?

for me, i have no urge for the real thing anymore. every time i get the idea in my head of me actually doing it, i feel kinda disgusted by the idea of someone else touching me. i don't even like to be hugged by my mom or grandma.

[Raetary]

25 and i have never watched porn in my life.

and never will.

Why tho?
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[Deleted]

do you just not seek anyone out?

for me, i have no urge for the real thing anymore. every time i get the idea in my head of me actually doing it, i feel kinda disgusted by the idea of someone else touching me. i don't even like to be hugged by my mom or grandma.

What's make you feel that way? Seems pretty weird.

[derpkitteh]

What's make you feel that way? Seems pretty weird.

i honestly don't know. things started changing over the years. at first it was just a little bit of uncomfortability with being touched, like tapped on the shoulder or a hand on the shoulder. now days, i'm bothered by any touching at all to the point of revulsion.

[Deleted]

Eunuchs? Just my 5 cents

[Not A Cat]

Rarely do I watch porn, I prefer reading erotic stories instead.

This

You can even read it in public and and everyone will be none the wiser

[Fencers]

do you just not seek anyone out?

for me, i have no urge for the real thing anymore. every time i get the idea in my head of me actually doing it, i feel kinda disgusted by the idea of someone else touching me. i don't even like to be hugged by my mom or grandma.

That's probably an actual problem. Mental health is serious business and I would encourage anyone with various forms of manifest anxiety to seek a help.

Perhaps you personally are overstating your feelings or there is more to it all- but in any case, I think anyone reading this thread whom shares similar feelings could do well to care for their mental health. No personal offense is intended to the user quoted here.

[Driahtvacahtve]

My gf likes to watch it together to laugh at and warm up with before having a bite. I'm not super into that, but I do enjoy the happy ending so I indulge her.
She tends to keep me at the limit when she is around I don't watch anything else (after several days of twice a day I do start losing my drive a little)
I do have days where I just wanna do it 3-4 times though, and there are weeks where she isn't around.
On such days I might occasionally pop open youporn for a bit of Japanese cultural studies, or browse my old, by now very dusty and abandoned, hentai library.
I find I feel odd and get trouble getting well into the mood if I go several days without an orgasm.

Generally though, now 30, I find that porn indeed does very little compared to when I was like, a teenager or early twenties. It mostly just gets the brain started or something I guess.
Done enough interesting stuff with enough different girls that I have plenty of mental imagery to draw upon, and I work at a Japanese girls' high school so it's not like I am lacking in material for filthy imaginary profanity. IMAGINARY, mind you (Please CIA don't arrest me). The mind is the only place we are truly free after all!

[derpkitteh]

That's probably an actual problem. Mental health is serious business and I would encourage anyone with various forms of manifest anxiety to seek a help.

Perhaps you personally are overstating your feelings or there is more to it all- but in any case, I think anyone reading this thread whom shares similar feelings could do well to care for their mental health. No personal offense is intended to the user quoted here.

hmm, never thought it as anxiety. i don't feel like it's germs or anything like that, i just don't like the contact... it makes me feel bothered really bad.

[Nathreim]

The Amish.

[Yuujin]

Blind people. But they can have it described to them now.

[TheFirstOnes]

You've spent years of your life not watching porn eh?

BULLSHIT, I say. Bullshit...

[Putin-Chan]

Infants.

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[HumbleDuck]

I can not imagine my life without porn. I mean sex and jacking it are two seperate things and both are crucial aspects to my life.

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25 and i have never watched porn in my life.

and never will.

That would be an awkward thing to regret on the deathbed.

[Zandalarian Paladin]

Anti-depressant makes anything related to masturbation a nightmare.

In my teenage years I used to stay away from porn websites because of viruses, but I'd still go on official websites and just be done with the free two-minutes previews.

As time went I gradually found new sources and obviously well known websites which has a wide array of choice. I grew accustomed to it. Wanking took more and more time because it was just more of the same. The 5 minutes pleasure periods became ten, then fifteen, then thirty.

Then came the antidepressants, which made my 30 minutes sessions into hour-long sessions and worst of it is, I can't maintain without porn. And even then, I've become excessively selective, which in turn makes me spend more time searching that watching.

I've managed to find a few things that are enough to scratch the itch, like erotic stories which is the only thing that seems to positively reconciliate my imagination and physical attraction. There's also bara manga, which is a more masculine (and much less childish, which is a terrible turnoff) version of japanese yaoi (Read: Gay. Very gay.)

So yeah, I watch porn. And it's terrible.

PS: I don't know anyone who doesn't.

[Deleted]

You've spent years of your life not watching porn eh?

BULLSHIT, I say. Bullshit...

I don't need porn if im fucking

[Myrryr]

Let's see... 19 tabs open with pornographic material or material related to pornographic games right now. 55.7gb of stuff in my porn folder (which is pretty much pure porn games, pics and vids are what the 'net is for), and about 20k hours on roll20 dedicated to ERP.

Ironically, I haven't watched porn in a good couple months. But played, written, read, or appreciated artwork? Yeah...

[Lady Dragonheart]

I don't need porn if im fucking

Actually, for me, the case is reversed. The more passionate sex I have, the more interested in porn/hentai/ERP I become...

For example, my relationship with my ex was virtually sexless, and I had no desire for such fancies, pretty much at all. I even grew to loath sex and sexual imagery for a good while there, just a bit over an entire decade.

[Deleted]

do you just not seek anyone out?

for me, i have no urge for the real thing anymore. every time i get the idea in my head of me actually doing it, i feel kinda disgusted by the idea of someone else touching me. i don't even like to be hugged by my mom or grandma.

No, I'm not the type for hookups. And my personal situation makes it...difficult aswell.

Didnt you have a boyfriend (fuzzy memory) or don't you have those kind of issues with him?

[Fahrenheit]

I watch porn fairly regularly with my wife. Our normal Friday evening after a work week consists of going our for dinner and drinks (mostly by ourselves, but sometimes with friends), coming home and having another drink or two while watching porn (if the Knicks [but they suck this year] aren't on), having sex, taking a quick shower, then she falls asleep on the couch while watching TV and I play video games until 1-2AM, then I wake her up and we go to bed.