People find it so hard to be moderate due to our desire to be part of a tribe. Tribalism is what has lead us to this red vs blue political system, which is incredibly flawed.
People have the choice of Clown A, or Clown B, and adopting either means we also adopt their rigid set of beliefs and values.
It’s a simple concept, we are social creatures and want to “belong”.
In days where societies were more accurately described as tribes, there was a very practical purpose for it. Men would hunt in teams to increase the chance of hunting food. Tribes would stick together in self-defense against other aggressive opposing tribes. The more intelligent tribe members would become leaders and the tribe would often benefit under that person’s wisdom.
Interestingly, as tribal leaders got older and physically weaker, they would have to use intelligence and manipulation to remain in power over the bold, younger and stronger tribe members that would otherwise overthrow them with brute force. The old would become sages, mystics and visionaries by creating godly deities that would serve to both explain the unexplained and protect the older tribal leaders through fear and threats (sound familiar?).
“The god Hakkala protects this tribe! He keeps our soil fertile and our enemies at bay, and I am his champion and sole spokesperson on earth. Overthrow me, oh mighty sons, and you will upset Hakkala and doom yourselves to starvation and adversity.” Tribalism was great, right?
The current political system simply does not allow people to vote on individual issues, which it absolutely should.
In terms of politics, it might feel good to align yourself with a political party for many reasons. You might want to align yourself with other like-minded people because it’s safe, and offers you validation of your ideas. You might even align yourself with a political party based on your religion or race.
What you are actually doing is bad. It’s called “identity politics”, and it results in the ignorance of sound reasoning. Reasoning should be independent of your skin colour or background, and based on logic. Identity politics will always end up with one side pitting themselves against another without actually solving anything – at least, anytime soon.
The thing we need to realise is, by choosing a side we all lose in some way. You become an advocate for all points for that side (good and bad). Choosing sides limits independent thought, and quite simply, we are selling ourselves short by doing so.