Once again, not enough coffee and life has made my brain hurt.
Source: https://www.yahoo.com/news/caretaker...140112853.htmlA caretaker at an assisted living center who police say was filmed performing a sexually provocative dance on a 100-year-old resident was doing it as a prank and trying to make the man feel good, her attorney said.
Brittany Fultz, 26, pleaded not guilty to gross sexual imposition Tuesday. Police said she showed her breasts and buttocks while she danced in front of and on the man in December.
Investigators said the man has dementia, but Fultz's attorney said the resident could have told her to stop but didn't.
"The man knew exactly what was going on and had no problem whatsoever with it," defense attorney Geoffrey Oglesby said Wednesday.
As an additional note, here's some information about the offense that was charged:
http://www.columbuscriminalattorney....al-imposition/To be charged with gross sexual imposition, you must allegedly have had some form of sexual contact with another person (not your spouse) or caused them to have it with you, or caused two other people to have sexual contact, when any of the following applies:
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The other person or one of the other people has a mental or physical condition or is old enough that they couldn’t resist or consent
On one hand, we sometimes hear some pretty shocking things about how the elderly get treated in such facilities. I can see how taking a video of this kind of thing could be a way to make fun of someone with dementia -- a kind of "look at me I'm 26 and this geezer is 100 -- and that's inappropriate.
On the other hand, while I'm not to 100 yet, I'm past the halfway point and edging up on 60%. That being the case, I have a bit of a WTF moment contemplating the idea that at some point I'm going to be considered too old to think for myself without proof of any loss of cognitive function. Hey! We've got folks on the Supreme Court who are closer to 100 than I am. Grainy booking photos aren't flattering, but I'd like to think that if I should reach 100 they'll be able to say of me: "The man knew exactly what was going on and had no problem whatsoever with it".
So, what are your thoughts on the incident? Most of you are even further from 100 than I am, but what do you think about ageism? You're probably going to live even longer. Are you ready to be told one day that you're so old that you can't consent to something like a lap dance?