Never once saw DPS meters in use in Baron runs. And I was a non-raider, so Baron ad nauseum was my endgame in pursuit of pants that refused to drop to complete my set, so I'm doubting your claims that "everyone had one" back then. You emphasize everyone did, so I'm telling you that's flat out incorrect. I would have experienced people using them at some point and I didn't. Not even once. I'm not saying NOBODY had them running. I'm just saying it wasn't everyone and I'd even question if it was a majority.
Your argument supporting this is akin to a room full of people who are all given knives. You know there are 25 nutjobs who are mentally unstable but who cares because knives are useful. It's not your fault if something bad happens just because you gave everyone knives. It's the community's problem. You have no responsibility to come up with a more elegant solution, after all, because it's up to people on how they use the knives you gave them!
Thank the Twelve Yoshida is mindful about creating and fostering a positive experience rather than throwing anything in and saying "it's their problem, not mine."
"People are toxic online, so let's give them tools that makes it easier to express their toxicity" isn't a logical approach.
However, let me propose this for discussion in our differing views on the topic.
How could Square implement a more reliable DPS meter for those wanting to use it for personal use while still maintaining the current "if you're using the ones you're technically not supposed to, we'll look the other way if you aren't a jerk with them" approach they use?
I think making them official opens the door for flaunting them to be viewed as acceptable. Right now they ARE in use, they just aren't as precise as some want them to be and since they're not official and aren't really against ToS, it's a don't flaunt don't tell situation, which keeps them from being touted around for bragging or harassment.
How would we propose making a more reliable and detailed DPS meter while still maintaining this "keep a lid on it" style policy? Suggestions? Thoughts? Or is that policy in and of itself disagreed with as well?