Originally Posted by
Nixx
I'm also now outright stating that this idea that offense is purely taken is absolutely insane and not in line with human behavior, as you cannot simply will yourself to be a particular way from moment to moment simply because it's convenient and to be able to do that would require magical bullshit thinking along the lines of a soul that's not bound by physical cause and effect. Some people may have more or less control over their emotions or more or less ability to shrug things off, but those that lack those abilities can't simply decide to have them in the moment it occurs. It is something that, at best, can be cultivated over a long period of time.