They stood up for themselves and refused to give that resturant any business. How is that lacking backbone and pride?
Look this isn't some isolated incident here. Just look at the past week on these forums and you will find thread after thread after thread after thread after thread just like this one. Shrugging off these incidents isn't going to make anything better it is simply going to increase the frequency and severity of these incidents. People need to be called out for this behavior.
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Has the waiter denied saying it? Has the resturant? No? Then it sounds like to me that this incident actually happened and that waiter did what he is being accused of.
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I like how you are giving the waiter the benefit of the doubt rather than those women. Pretty much says it all about why this is something that needs to be discussed and called out and not allowed to be swept under the rug.
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The services you are vilifying exist to get illegal immigrants through the process of becoming legal residents. How is this a bad thing?
How you handle issues in your business and how you fail in screening your workers from having right wing nazi ideas being pushed upon your customers is something we clearly need to know. you have obviously failed in your standard working orders if you get to the point where one of your workers does these ILLEGAL actions.
I am sure it was approved actions by the management of the restaurant and they just ditch the server when the going got hot since really no sane server would ask these questions unless he was forced to by management.
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You think this was a rogue worker? really? these actions usually comes from management and the culture you have at a work place or should we say lack of management and culture in this case. It shows the poor skills in management and hiring practices taking place. If they fail that basics what else do they fail?
Where are you people getting this stuff from? The resturant offered to donate as an apology and will donate to the charity those women requested. No one is fighting this. No one is trying to ruin this restaurant or get it shut down.
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And you base this on what exactly? Again the resturant has yet to deny this happened and everything they have done has been an attempt to apologize for it.
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Well the resturant sure seems to think there is a victim.
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Yes how dare he be held accountable for his actions.
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Why? Because this incident among others is a symptom of much bigger issue and not something to be swept under the rug.
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And you are assuming it isn't true with zero evidence to back it up whereas there is proof it did happen in the very fact the restaraunt fired the waiter and apologized for his behavior. The fact that you and others are claiming this didn't happen despite all evidence to the contrary is just putting a spotlight on why this is a very real problem that needs to be addressed.
Because people keep calling that place upscale, but I can tell you by menu, prices, location and seats, this is a place where you grab a beer and a burger. No server is, if they even have time to, ask where somebody is from here. This isn't some 5 star, dress-code enforcing place where white people would feel uncomfortable for other races to eat there. If this happened, which I still doubt, the server did it on purpose to get fired or to fuck over the restaurant. Any and all apologies mean nothing when every one I've worked out would apologize even if it's the customers fault just so they can save face.
There's simply no actual proof this happened besides another person just trying to get their 15 minutes.
Wow, look at everyone on here. No where in this article does it say anything about him asking their immigration/legal status. It says he asked for proof or residency. For all we know they may have had a local special for neighborhood residents and these women decided to turn it into a racial issue. This article does not give enough information.
It doesn't say anywhere in the article to disprove that. I am just saying that people can turn nothing into something because of "Feelings".
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I really don't know. I was saying that I feel the article is incomplete. "From here" does not prove that he was asking citizenship
You are the one making guesses as to what it "might have been," even though you have no proof to back up your claim. I simply read the article, and commented on what was reported to have happened. You are the one trying to rationalize it, saying that maybe he was asking because of "local specials." Give me a fucking break.|
He was asking about proof of residency, at a restaurant. Call him up and ask him. I'm sure he's got the time to give you an interview.