I'm simply responding to the views you have relayed, nothing more and nothing less. If it is "harassment" to have someone question the things you write on a forum, you have 2 option;
1) Scrutinize yourself, perhaps there's a reason for why your posts attract "harassment".
2) Stop posting on forums where all kinds are present. I'm sure there would be forums where your views on the world could have an echo-chamber.
Exactly.
All it boils down to is; "I'll judge women for this behaviour, but I wouldn't be above contributing to their list of conquests".
Pretty huge mental gymnastics. I don't judge people for their sexual freedom, but wouldn't sleep with people on first dates out of caution. There are STD's, rumors (men talk), I might not feel at ease etc etc.
Meanwhile, men sitting here painting all women that enjoy casual sex as "hoebags" and "not relationship material" wouldn't turn down sex from said hoebags...
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More common than you think though in societies where women and men are able to both work and care for children. It'll only get more common in younger generations.
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Sorry, that's not how forums work. I guess my point 2 is the one which applies to you.
What I don't get more is this American "oh I am the big boss I had sex with 4 woman last night". Over here we ain't like that... we are just like "good for you... we are all nearly 30, we have had sex before..."
I never understood the horrid attempts at bragging about something that everyone does... first time sure, but after its old news.
Depends on the date
I mean if you met the person on tinder, what do you expect their expectations to be?
Not here is in American south, women are such prudes and will not even look at you unless you are rich.
Major problem with shallow women here. Doesn't matter if you are a good guy, doesn't matter if you do have lots of money and choose not to look and act a way.
To get a women in the south, you'll need all of these things.
Be very ugly.
Act like a jackass.
Have a watch.
Wear overpriced shoes.
Drive a truck.
Always wear a baseball hat 24/7.
Wear shorts.
Wear a pink shirt.
My friend fell for this crap and had women lined up a mile long and treated every single one of them like shit even the good ones. Let's just say his life ended up married to a cheating whore with three kids. Karma!
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Nothing in what I replied to said anything about men being providers for women or vice versa, so I am not sure why you think this comment pertinent to what I did say.
Both men and women settle, and for various reasons, but typically it's because the person they're settling with provides something of value, whether it be financial support, emotional support, sexual gratification, a partner with whom to make children etc. Given our somewhat sexist history, gender stereotypes will exist, but that doesn't mean this has to persist into the future indefinitely.
What did I say that's wrong?
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Not directly, no. But you go out, you spend time and effort to look good and attract someone. And in many cases the guy pays.
It's a bargain, like it or not. Time, effort and money for sex. ( best case scenario )
So what's bad about prostitution?
Ah yes, the feminist hamster wheel is spinning.
Clearly, if I do not have negative views on prostitution I must pay hookers myself.
Just like in 15, when I got called a faggot for not being against homosexuality.
What's your problem with prostitution, anyway? That it lowers the value of the average vagina, since men can get sex without any effort?