Not at all, just the passionate way people hate HOAs. It is like getting pissed of somebody somewhere is having a dish you don't think you would like for dinner. In almost all states if they come in after you have bought your home you can't be forced to join or conform, so again it is a choice. Now if they lie that is on the home owners for letting that happen. All these things are documented if they lie you confront them on it. I get not wanting the hassle in the very odd and unlikely situation somebody lives in a home some how an HOA sneaks in and then it turns out the neighborhood was sold snake oil and they don't do what they said they would do. The home owners aren't helpless victims though. The biggest issue I have seen first hand is the hypocrisy of them, when you have board members violating rules left and right meanwhile they try to fine anybody and everybody they can. It turns into a power trip and is certainly toxic.