‘Stealthing’ Is The Dangerous Sexual Practice That’s On The Rise

[callipygoustp]

Only if the contract specifies fetishes and/or alternative non-traditional sex is allowed.

Having experienced the variety of women I have, I am sure it will. I can't fucking wait!

[Seani]

Having experienced the variety of women I have, I am sure it will. I can't fucking wait!

Many millennials are disinterested in sex right now. Alot of guys are attracted only to porn. It is a weird phenomenon, and makes me wonder how it will be like in the future. Robot sex maybe, Virtual Porn... We have VR sex now, but I would imagine in the near future it will be so realistic that it could be indistinguishable or better than the real thing. Of course it will cause high suicide and depression because of lack of human contact.

[callipygoustp]

Many millennials are disinterested in sex right now. Alot of guys are attracted only to porn. It is a weird phenomenon, and makes me wonder how it will be like in the future. Robot sex maybe, Virtual Porn... We have VR sex now, but I would imagine in the near future it will be so realistic that it could be indistinguishable or better than the real thing. Of course it will cause high suicide and depression because of lack of human contact.

Thank god I'm too old for millenials.

Edit:
After double checking the age range for millenials it seems I have slept with quite a few millenials and as such haven't experience this "millenials are disinterested in sex" thing. Probably similar to that "friend zone" thing I hear about.

[Evil Midnight Bomber]

I know what ghosting is, but what is cushioning?

Having a "backup" if your current relationship goes sour.

[Aeula]

'Survivors' oh lord.

It's a dick move but to call those affected 'survivors' is hilarious.

[Rathwirt]

'Survivors' oh lord.

It's a dick move but to call those affected 'survivors' is hilarious.

Nice pun there.

[Seani]

Edit:
After double checking the age range for millenials it seems I have slept with quite a few millenials and as such haven't experience this "millenials are disinterested in sex" thing. Probably similar to that "friend zone" thing I hear about.

What is your point?

[kasuke06]

...From what I know of sex organs, this trick would either require extreme dexterity, or speed, and more than likely an inebriated assistant. also, oddly specific fetish. wait a minute... Is this another rainbow party situation?(where someone makes up a stupid/complicated sex act, and then claims that "all them kids are doing it now!")

[callipygoustp]

What is your point?

What was yours? Figure that out, and mine follows. It's not like we are translating Latin here.

[Mellrod]

Geez, from the title I thought it involved creeps stalking and/or violating people.

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Many millennials are disinterested in sex right now. Alot of guys are attracted only to porn. It is a weird phenomenon, and makes me wonder how it will be like in the future. Robot sex maybe, Virtual Porn... We have VR sex now, but I would imagine in the near future it will be so realistic that it could be indistinguishable or better than the real thing. Of course it will cause high suicide and depression because of lack of human contact.

I thought this was only a phenomenon in Japan. I'm pretty sure more teens and college kids are having sex now than ever here in the west. I mean, it's all over the media.

[Chemii]

If you window shop on Tinder and hook up to bang and the guy ends up not being an upstanding citizen, that's called rolling the dice - similar to shagging a hooker. "oh but he seemed really nice" - yes, because he was trying to get in your vagina.

Hey ladies, how about you stop having sex with complete strangers, you fucking apes.

Alexandra Brodsky - former senior editor @Feministing - never would have guessed.

[Phlegethon]

Apparently this is a thing, guy and girl have sex but the guy secretly removes his condom. I guess because it feels better?

Lots of images of tweets, etc at the link

http://shareably.net/stealthing-is-t...1b4bd69f1788b7

Many are starting to discuss “stealthing,” a term that describes when a man removes a condom during sex despite agreeing to wear one. A report found that U.S. cases are on the rise; it’s important to know that “stealthing” is a form of non-consensual sex and more common than you’d think.

In her study, Alexandra Brodsky writes:

Survivors [of stealthing] describe nonconsensual condom removal as a threat to their bodily agency and as a dignitary harm. ‘You have no right to make your own sexual decisions,’ they are told. ‘You are not worthy of my consideration.’
Professionals are taking to Twitter to spread information about the practice:

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Sadly, it turns out “stealthing” is pretty common:
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Brodsky has appeared on television to open people’s eyes:


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Alexandra wrote a research paper on 'stealthing': 'Not using a condom without consent, should be considered as gender-based violence'
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Fortunately, news outlets like The BBC are making an effort to increase awareness so we can fully establish that “stealthing” is unacceptable:

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First, shareably? Really? Might aswell have been infowars...
Second, don't call it a study. Alexandra Brodsky has as much credentials as my left pinky toe.
And so secretly going off the pill is gender based violence too? Or are we gender based biased again. And again and again.
(Obviously "stealthing" is not nice, but you as a woman can protect yourself too you know. And no, not just with a pill, there are more ways than one...)

Anyway.

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Geez, from the title I thought it involved creeps stalking and/or violating people.

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I thought this was only a phenomenon in Japan. I'm pretty sure more teens and college kids are having sex now than ever here in the west. I mean, it's all over the media.

Myeah, like violence and all that is more exposed in the media. More exposure does not mean the rate has gone up, it just means those are the stories that sell best.
Chances are this is because most guys are scared and so they should be. Enough examples of guys hooking up with girls who then later claim it was a rape. While that might get prooven a false accusation, the accuser rarely gets punished, the guys life is destroyed... He will always have the stigma and the internet never forgets.
Case in point, matress girl was dismissed for being a lying cunt. Now she still gets to speak on famnazi rallys and everything...
You need a signed consent, a filmed consent and a witness, to be sure to get in the sack with a random. Otherwise you might get called out for rape the next year.
(there's this feminist theory that you can change your mind about wanting the sex even years after you actually did it)

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If you window shop on Tinder and hook up to bang and the guy ends up not being an upstanding citizen, that's called rolling the dice - similar to shagging a hooker. "oh but he seemed really nice" - yes, because he was trying to get in your vagina.

Hey ladies, how about you stop having sex with complete strangers, you fucking apes.

Alexandra Brodsky - former senior editor @Feministing - never would have guessed.

And more of this.

[Nitro Fun]

Great idea in practice, much harder to say no to in the moment.

Not at all. I just have to think about the risks to skip it and masturbate instead if I don't know their STD status if they want to go without a condom. While it's more pleasurable without a condom it's not worth the risk.

[Deleted]

I'm always entertained by these things that happened when I was in high school, 1982-86, being touted as something new in today's world.

Yes ahah this "new thing" about secretly taking off the condom.
Ah what will these younguns think of next?

[Trassk]

Seen this before, its pretty much the same as snipping a hole in the condom. I've nothing against it being raw, but if the bottom hasn't given consent for it, then who, fuck that guy.

[Deleted]

I'm sorry but I call bullshit, women can absolutely tell the difference between a dude wearing a condom and a guy not wearing one.

Yes. It's better without which is why in the heat of the moment many won't argue. Especially when there's alcohol involved. Ive done this several times. Luckily, no std or unwanted pregnancies. Just multiple orgasms

[Deleted]

It is dangerous, and in theory would be punishable if it were easier to prove. I don't disagree that this sort of thing shouldn't happen, but people lying for selfish gains is not new, especially when sex is concerned. What can really be done about it? I'm pretty sure the kind of guy who would risk an STD and pregnancy where casual sex is so prevalent is not the kind of person to change their mind based on a few articles online, or that he really cares about the opinion of anyone else. The only solutions I see may be dismissed as victim blaming, but when it comes to protecting yourself from others, you're the only one who can be counted on and trusted.

I'm assuming that in order to not feel the sensation change of no condom a woman has to be drunk, on drugs, or naive. Not that I think there's anything wrong with any of those categories, but they do make a person more vulnerable, if you are one of the three it's probably best to avoid positions facing away from your one night stand and paying attention to what he's doing with his hands. Sex can't be very good when you have to worry about what they're doing the whole time, but it's a small price to pay when you're rolling the dice with a stranger.

I myself never wear a condom that's not my own, even if she claims to be on birth control I'll wear one nonetheless, it doesn't feel as good but it's the price to pay for sex with strangers. Even if she presented me with a recent medical certificate showing no STDs or STIs and said she was on birth control I would still use a condom if I barely know her. Sacrifices have to be made if you want to be certain.

[caervek]

Survivors [of stealthing]

AKA everyone who's ever experienced it lol, this survivor nonsense is getting out of hand XD

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Is this the new way of women getting men charged with rape when they revoke their consent? It just sounds so fishy that they don't feel the sudden shift in feeling.

Most countries have classed this as rape for decades. This is actually part of the case against Julian Assange that' seeing him hideout in an embassy until the statute of limitations expires.

[Deleted]

But isn't the joke on them though, when the women gets pregnant and keeps the child?

[Mercane]

I give it 3, maybe 4 years before catching a tooth during a blowie will be sexual assault.

"She hurt me without my permission". Fucking millennials, I swear.