Originally Posted by
Wikiy
Why is it that you wish your country to remain whole? Why don't you want your state, province, whatever it may be, to be your country?
Because there's something binding you. A culture, a language, an ethnicity. These together we call nationality, of course. Europe is somewhat different. In Europe, all of this meant everything, right up until to the point where all of it ended up killing dozens of millions of people and ravaging entire countries. In essence, nationalism failed Europeans. That's why you generally wont find nationalistic Europeans. Somewhat patriotic - sure. Nationalistic? No.
So, what is it that Europeans have in common? Is it language? No. Is it culture? Eh, it could be argued somewhat that we do, but for the sake of the argument, I will say - no. Is it ethnicity? No. Nationality? No. What is it that Europeans have in common? The realization that nationality is actually not a good thing. I don't think this realization operates on a conscious level in a pro-federation European. I don't think he knows why he wants a federation. He just wants it.
I can only tell you what I personally feel and know. I know that there are huge numbers of people in my own country with whom I identify much less on so many things than I do with even huger numbers of people outside my country. I feel like there's no inherent special worth to my language, nor my culture, nor my ethnicity. I feel like knowledge and ideas are infinitely more precious. And these can be shared across borders. Thus, in an ideal world, borders are useless. Of course, we don't live in an ideal world, and we never will. However, that doesn't mean we can't strive to build one. Personally, a European federation, for me, is just a stop on that journey. Of course, I may not see that federation even happen, and if I do, I will definitely not see a united Earth, but that doesn't mean I can't help build a better future.
You do not understand how the EU works. No one in the EU tells anyone what to do. The EU interferes very little in the policies of given countries, and when it does, it's approved either by the European Parliament (which is directly elected) or the leaders of the 28 countries, who are also directly elected. However, the system is not perfect. Everyone knows this, and everyone wants to improve it.
Also, they wouldn't disband, same how every US state has some sort of parliament.