By the age of 35, the numbers are perfectly in balance: 40,000 single men and 40,000 single women. It is only at this time in life that men and women get a true fix on how attractive they really are.
A decade earlier, women get an inflated view as to their attractiveness because there is an oversupply of candidates for their affection. A decade later, it is men’s turn to be deluded about their *attractiveness — because there are more single women than single men at this time.
This imbalance gives rise to a condition known as hotness *delusion syndrome, and it applies equally to women in their 20s as it does to men in their 40s. If there is a man drought, it kicks in at 40 and progressively worsens every year as men die off and as some women and men exercise choices about living singly.
The problem is that, while men and women tend to marry (or partner) in their late 20s on the leeward side of Man Mountain, separation and divorce arrive in a very different world in the late 30s and early 40s. There is a climate change *between these two stages in the life cycle. When single women are canvassing prospective partners in their 20s, there are 20 per cent more single men than women. But when single women look to *re-partner at 40 there are 10 per cent less single men (35,000) than single women (39,000).