Originally Posted by
Veluren
Case in point
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To be a little bit less sarcastic, let me actually give context.
Most of the people I see in support of parsers and actively vocal about it are people who tend to be mean, crude, bitter, and just unpleasant to play with because DPS is the be-all end all, mechanics don't matter as long as you don't outright die, as long as you're pulling off satisfactory number.
I agree it's inexcusable to just be AFKing or consciously slowing the group down, but most people I see who get ugly about DPS numbers with parsers are ignorant to the thought of "don't attribute to malice what could instead be ignorance."
Let me give a recent (As in, two hours ago) example, I was doing Sohm Al HM, nearer to the end of the dungeon, I start hearing the teltale sound of Iron Jaws... and Iron Jaws... and Iron Jaws, the BRD was spamming it, despite having no DoTs up. I sat her down, politely, and pointed out her full rotation does much more damage, and she was open to it, I didn't need a parser to see she was doing bad, in fact her low DPS probably made every pull take nearly three times as long, but after spending a few seconds talking to her, it was very clear she didn't know what she was doing was wrong because nobody bothered to teach her or correct her before me.
After getting out of the dungeon, I engaged in conversation, set her straight, gave her a rotation and a ton of information, and she was thankful and happy that I could help her do better.
A lot of times, in games with Parsers, and this isn't just WoW, I saw it with people parsing in other games, if you're doing low DPS, you're an irredeemable casual who deserves to be mistreated, harassed, and removed from the group, because obviously you're not new, or incorrect, you're always someone who knows better doing something out of malice, always.
That's the toxicity I feel like Square is avoiding, be gentle and friendly when pointing out flaws, a lot of the emphasis on combos and buffs means that if you watch a party member fight, and they're doing something wrong, you can SEE it plain as day, without a parser, and that also gives you the opportunity to point out "Hey you're missing X ability" or "You're letting X important buff/debuff drop", which not only is good because it gives them a reference, but it's phrased a lot nicer than "Hey you're doing X less DPS than X person"
People aren't willing to give others a chance, and while obviously parsers aren't ENTIRELY to blame, and people in support of them aren't ALL like that, I feel there's a definite correlation.
And, to give a final thought to the person I quoted. Yes, you should, you should babysit new DPS, because if you babysit them and help them get better, they most of the time WILL get better, you've just helped someone who was a bit unsure get more sure of their ability to play and more confident in pulling off their combos, cooldowns, and rotations. It may be extra work, but you'll have left not only having created another competent player, but you'll have done it in a friendly way and made the community as a whole that much better, because they'll pay it forward for the next new DPS that has no idea what they're doing