humans are a species with two sexes. one sex is going to find that they experience inclinations towards things that the other sex might not be as inclined to like. that's not to say there can never be crossover, but in general, a female will likely enjoy more feminine things than the average male and same goes for guys.
i am female, and i wasn't ever really taught what i should or shouldn't like. my main influence was my brother, i tend to like games and fighting and action figures(this is due to a phobia of dolls i developed around age 6 or 7.)
gender isn't a spectrum, it's a set thing. but that doesn't mean that one gender only likes certain things, just that they have an inclination towards certain things. i fully believe you can be the wrong gender paired with the wrong sex, and fully support transpeople. but you will never be a xe. ever. it doesn't exist, and it will never exist.