I've never been in the level of miserable parties that some of you guys have.
I've had my first shit DF (since SB launch) yesterday. None today so far.
So I agree with the sentiment. Some of you spend far too much time sweating the small stuff. Making yourselves upset. Some people have seemingly spent more time on the forums writing graphic novels about it than they could have possibly lost by all the low dps and healer dps combined.
Chillax. For your own mental health.
Unless the dissertations help you cope. Then, please, feel free to continue. I just wish there were some way to throw them in the fire and burn them after writing it... like some cliché anger managment exercise.
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I don't care what the devs intended. You and I both know that is not always how it plays out.
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And you don't always need a damage meter to KNOW who is doing shit tier damage. If I tank a run I can tell just by the pitiful aggro some people generate. I can confirm this aggro to dps just by asking my friend who DOES run the damage meter how things are going.
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And you can cite EQ as your first game but I've been gaming longer than you (muds and Ultima Online, then EQ) and I HAVE seen people frustrated at having to carry god awful players and stopping playing because of it. There are MANY reasons why people quit but if people start doing a pro/con list of reasons to stay or go you can damn sure bet some players will list 'carrying shit tier players' as one of the reasons. Without question some people quit because of elitists, it goes both ways. I'm just saying a person should be self aware that if they are holding a group back by their poor damage they need to sit out. I don't care that the devs believe everything is a perfect place and no one runs dps meters or kicks people, cause shit happens and people get kicked.
I am perfectly chilled. Don't even try to play that card. Also if you want to "throw them in the fire" then use the ignore function on the site.
I'm just saying if someones underperforming in an instance mechanically and not improving or doing low dps in farm groups then I will remove them.
Sure you wouldn't agree but I play with many people who would have no problem kicking someone like that. I tend to just do the run unless the person is holding everyone back by dying over and over or killing others by failing mechanics.
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Exactly. Someone is too quick to toss the elitism card. I toss the "I didn't sign up for a 45 min run when the dungeon should take 20 mins because of shitters." card.
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And you are assuming that these 'dissertations' are fueled by people being upset. I wish you would have taken your own advice and tossed that into the fire after writing it instead of gracing us with it.
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God! You are such an elitist!
This thread has gotten so ridiculous over the past few months with just constant whining over pointless crap. No wonder some of the frequent posters don't come here that often anymore.
The funny part is I never even brought up elitism in regards to any of this conversation. The only time I used that word is to describe how my friends feel about the mmo community. I frankly hate the word. But what ever floats your boat.
I'm just trying to tell people they should think about the other side of the population. Those lower skilled players are still people. and a very significant population of the game. Saying they can go fuck off only does harm to the game in the long road.
couple of months ago when I joined I saw nice post/posters. Now (especially after SB launch), I'm looking at a lot of pointless arguments, I call them pointless cause at the end of day their opinion ain't going to change no matter how hard they bang that head against that brick wall that separates "elitists" from "casuals"
See, I didn't call anyone out by name because I do just skim past it all.
I also knew that everyone who gets far too bent out of shape would take it upon themselves.
I am willing to help. I'm not willing to help ignorance though. And in EX if it's a learning party I happily expect wipes. However low dps in a learning or farm party is a no no. Same with jobs in wrong accessories which Stormblood has remedied now thank god.
If I kindly help someone in Dungeons with mechanics and they either ignore me or start giving me shit then that is when I won't bother helping them. And if they consistently ignore mechanics then I will probably boot.
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And thats fine. Maybe I made my point badly, but I don't have an issue with that. You havnt said anything unreasonable. My only issue is with people that act like the unskilled players need to be sent packing. Respect needs to be shown to everyone. I hate to throw this line, but they pay their sub fee too. And that sub fee helps give all of us more content.
Yeah, that's why I don't bother posting in here, at the end of the day no-one can change opinions on this stuff but it's still volatile, so it just ends up being circle jerks and rudeness, something I want no part of.
Shame, too, I like conversing in here when the conversations to be had are worthwhile.
tome gear done for SAM and cleared both ex trials. can finally start lvling some alts.