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yes - but that's very drunk - Thing's that happen before that point are, reduced inhibitions, impaired mental functions, and memory impairment.
In short, its very plausible to drink a lot, be fully cognizant and consent to sex, and then Not remember a god damned thing.
One question for the ones saying "how hard is it to not drink if you can't handle it?". How is that different to "how hard is it to not mess around with drunk people if you can't know how drunk they are or their real intentions"? Why are sober people relieved from acting responsible but drunk people should just live with the consequences of their actions?
cops should be locked up for this, abuse of power
First of all, this is Buzzfeed. Buzzfeed is NOT a credible new source. Ever. Does anyone have a proper news source for this? Also, even in the Buzzfeed article this mostly sounds like two people meeting, getting drunk and then involved with one another.
Interestingly enough. Sex is one of the very few cases where this protection is extended to ONE gender. If someone drinks and drives, we hold that person accountable. Even though by the same logic we shouldn't be able to. Kill someone while drunk? Well, they should've dodged that bullet. Now they made you a murderer!
Then again, this case seems to edge into "Jake and Josie" territory. Does anyone have a proper news source for it?
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The article is about the backward and reactionary laws in that state and the power of a family with money to subvert that system.
A lot of the reflexive anti-feminist crowd seem to be making out that the article says we should prosecute a guy on the basis of no evidence. It doesn't say that or imply that. It says the system makes collecting that evidence impossible. Unless they are misquoting the law in that state and the guy didn't buy his way out of a DUI with legal threats then it is accurate.
Possibly some people are doing this out of confusion or laziness, but in others it seems to be deliberate tangential deflection.
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They are not relieved from acting responsibly. But if a drunk chick wants to get nailed, I don't blame the sober guy for nailing her. She wanted to get nailed. What's the big deal? So she regrets it, she can cry a little about it like the gazillion other girls that make bad decisions on a daily basis and then she can move on. No pregnancy, no disease, no injury... then there is no foul. Heck, I've regretted some nights with girls that I had. Doesn't mean I can later decide I'll switch the label from "bad night" to "must have been rape" later.
Btw, ask the chick that got dragged from a dark park lane and forcibly raped, bruised, injured and had no chance of avoiding her fate despite physically defending herself (and quite probably gettning more injuries) if she thinks being drunk, getting fucked and then later chaning your mind is actually rape. What do you think?
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I would really like to know what crimes they were investigating her for. I'm not saying that this is at all what happened, but there is a version of this where she could have actually committed those crimes and tried using the rape accusation to garner sympathy or cover up her crimes, and when all of that backfired she killed herself. Again, I do not think that that is the most likely scenario, but I would like to know what the whole story is and not just what details Buzzfeed is letting out. Sadly, since no charges were ever made against her alleged attacker or against her for the crimes they were investigating her for, the evidence is probably not available to the public.
Again, before people start flaming on me, I don't think that the scenario I laid out is what happened, I'm saying that it is a possibility and that I would like more information to rule it out as a possibility.
Ok, so... why is the OP claiming rape again? Cos she did have sex, voluntarily, while drunk... and later talked herself into thinking she wants it to be rape. She even had to ask her friends what the rules are about that. Usually, when you're raped, you're pretty fucking certain are you not? Do you think you can be uncertain about being raped? May just a little raped? But otherwise it was okay, really?
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Really? Did you even read the ridiculous click bait? Going to say you didn't and rather jumped at OP's misleading title and feigned outrage.
The word "allegedly" at the beginning of the article sums it up. And now she has topped herself it will sadly always be simply that, and allegation with nothing proven. Family are likely hoping for a settlement.
I certainly believe that people can question whether something was that bad or not after it happened or if it happened as their memory says, it's not unheard of that people second guess themselves after experiencing something traumatic. I've done it myself when I've been groped in public transport but that's still sexual assault even if I questioned myself if it was so bad.
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If you question yourself if being groped was so bad, I think you may be dirtier than you pretend to be. But I'll leave you in your constant female state of self-doubt and worry and continue living in a country where this type of princess behaviour isn't yet tolerated. We're still trying to solve the actual rape problems before inventing new ones. Nobody gives a shit about a drunk chick doing a stupid decision when you're still trying to figure out how to help those women that actually, literally get raped.
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So... if we don't know what happened... you're assuming the dude raped her. That's it, when in doubt, assume guilty? Haha cute.
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