Gonna add to it, the lack of websites back then telling people where each item came from. and if there was such a site, not many people knew about it. it was simply easier to ask the person directly.
the same isnt true today, id rather look at a website than to ask any one of the total dickwads in the game. i do not want to give somebody the wrong impression, im not in awe of their snowflakeyness. i dont care what it took to get something, just trying to find the location. websites are abundant with info and ease of access now.