The question is a bit misleading...
Do I mind if people have sex in their first date? Nope, their life, they do whatever they want.
Would I encourage it? I would say no in 99% of the time.
Would I do it? Absolutely not.
I may not be an overachiever, but my Druid is richer than half of Venezuela.
That really depends.. I don't really go on dates, I have high standards.. but suppose you called them dates, then probably not. I want to at least know him first.
Judge-y about what? That you seem to have very little interest in sex? Maybe I'm not so much "judge-y" about that as I am doubting that you are telling the truth.
I have all the self-control in the world, honey. I just don't see a point in wasting time. Life is too short and you have to use every second of it.
Only the most desperate of males would go out with someone for 1 month with no sex, that's just ridiculous.
And I mean dating here not 'will they won't they' friendship.
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This isn't about self control, it's about a healthy couple. Having sex early is good to ensure compatibility.
One month is ridiculous for adults.
Last edited by pateuvasiliu; 2017-08-16 at 10:36 PM.
Never on the first date unless I already know her well to begin with.
You're missing the point. "Racist" only applies to [negative] prejudice or discrimination based on racial attributes. A cultural stereotype (which includes any social behavior like docility, submission, etc) is not a racial attribute and thus not "racist", even if mistakenly applied to you because you're "Asian". Additionally, if you want look at it at the very basic level, it can't be "racist" because the "fetish" is not born of hate (negative), but rather intrigue or admiration (positive). There is no "positive" racism.
Last edited by Mistame; 2017-08-16 at 10:37 PM.
No way in hell. Someone that waits 1 month to fuck his date either thinks sex is some horrible thing Jesus hates, is so desperate he knows he can't do better or he simply fell in love hard which is creepy since it's just 1 month of dating.
Honestly if a friend went out with a girl 1 month and they didn't have sex yet I'd assume she's either cheating or leading him on. It's not normal.