Sex on the First Date?

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Ted Bundy

lol!! why would i associate with a serial killer?

[shadowmouse]

@Linadra Allow me to assist:

Negging and kino have nothing to do with being seen as interesting.

Negging is a playful tease to knock women off their pedestals, to tell them they should take themselves less seriously, and to display that you are not impressed by them.

Kino just refers to introducing touching into an interaction. By touching a girl very early on you let her know that touching girls for you is normal. You then escalate, from light taps, to holding hands, to hugging and kissing and so on.

DSV... I don't even know what that is, maybe you mean DHV? That's display/demonstrate high value
That's something you do to show that you have the characteristics a girl is attracted to and that you are interesting. But I don't see what's wrong with that. It's basically a way to present your character to a girl. How else is she gonna know if she likes you or not? By being boring?

http://www.mmo-champion.com/threads/...-species/page2 post 40

I think that translates as "I'm going to playfully be a horse's ass to knock you off your pedestal by saying things like "When they're in my bed, all women are the same height." Then, I'm going to paw you as much as I can."

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Of course. If the woman says no she's not worth your time bros. Find a girl who knows the basics of human life.

[Doctor Amadeus]

lol!! why would i associate with a serial killer?

I don't know why would anyone, do you think they walk around with that written on them like a name tag.

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what is a stud?

Someone like this.

[Doctor Amadeus]

Someone like this.

Someone call Love Connection. We got some contestants.

[Celista]

It's called joking. Lighten up you Mary.

Mhmmm sure.

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Actually, that happens to be true for a lot of women. Vaginas are just poorly designed in that regard. Though in her case, I'd posit that she hasn't had enough experience yet to know whether or not that's actually going to be a factor.

i had enough to decide i dont like it very much

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Someone like this.

no you are a creepy man old enough to be my father and try to have sex with girls my age!!

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i had enough to decide i dont like it very much

You just haven't had any guys who were good at it yet.

no you are a creepy man old enough to be my father and try to have sex with girls my age!!

Can you blame me?

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You just haven't had any guys who were good at it yet.


Can you blame me?

i dont like how it feels, i dont like how it hurts and i dont like it when they are done

[Mistame]

I don't know I happen to believe if indentured servitude was still a thing as in fucking slavery, many guys talking a lot of shit and women two would probably dropped dead of shock that some of these say porn stars or more go for 10x times more than a Ferrari.

Meh, about $250/hr here.

i had enough to decide i dont like it very much

My comment wasn't intended to challenge your experiences. I merely meant that for some people, primarily with women, sex isn't something that starts off pleasurable. It can be awkward, painful and messy. Feeling scared, nervous or put off in any way can take what would otherwise be an amazing experience and turn it into a nightmare. In short, don't write it off purely based on bad experiences.

no you are a creepy man old enough to be my father and try to have sex with girls my age!!

Two things: 1. "Creepy" is just a word people use to describe someone who's attracted to a woman that's not attracted to him. 2. The only relevant factor in regards to age is the law. The perfect age is the legal age. At 80, 18 will still be perfect for me because younger is always better in that regard.

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Two things: 1. "Creepy" is just a word people use to describe someone who's attracted to a woman that's not attracted to him. 2. The only relevant factor in regards to age is the law. The perfect age is the legal age. At 80, 18 will still be perfect for me because younger is always better in that regard.

he is 32, i am 16 that is creepy to want to have sex with girls my age for someone his age

[Mistame]

he is 32, i am 16 that is creepy to want to have sex with girls my age for someone his age

The only thing "creepy" about it is that you're underage (16). If you were 18 and he were 36, it wouldn't be "creepy" to a rational person.

[shadowmouse]

i dont like how it feels, i dont like how it hurts and i dont like it when they are done

Ignore the other creepy old man old enough to be your grandfather. Having had this discussion more than a couple of times, maybe I can give some advice, like with the cooking thread?

Your points are valid, but just like there are better and worse ways to cook chicken, there are better and worse ways to have sex. Let me see if I can explain this without crossing the forum rules line.

Feeling can be a problem for many reasons, not being in the mood (maybe in the mood to try, but not relaxed) or even just incompatible bodies. Personal lubricant can be a big help, and good communications also help.

Hurts is usually not fun for most of us. Again, personal lubricant and good communications can help, but you might also want to talk to your gynecologist. I used to date a woman who was unusually small and we had to be careful about things like position because the wrong position or wrong motion was very painful for her. The good news is that as long as we understood the problem, she had fun.

When things are done isn't something easy to address within forum rules. It might be a lack of manners, it might be a lack of condom (condoms prevent mess), or it might be the emotional let down. There will be articles online for all of those, but that may give you a starting point.

Really, it's like any sport or hobby. Knowing more helps.

[Doctor Amadeus]

he is 32, i am 16 that is creepy to want to have sex with girls my age for someone his age

Yeah I think at 30 is when the cooties really set in you know, so yeah.

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Yeah I think at 30 is when the cooties really set in you know, so yeah.

Oh shit man that stuff is real?

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Not underage for creepy Europeans

We walk about beaches naked and everything in yurop too we're weird like that..

[lewdest]

If I'm on a date looking for marriage, no sex on the first date. I would never consider marriage with a woman who casually has sex with strangers, not only is it gross, but it would be impossible for me to trust that person. If sex on the first date does occur, there is no second date.

I'll be hypocritical all I want, women and men aren't the same and never will be. I'm not raising your 3 children fathered by random men you don't know. No hymen no diamond.

[Mistame]

Not underage for creepy Europeans

I typically speak relative where I'm from so.

Oh shit man that stuff is real?

That was more pointing out that "Older guys are creepy" is about as rational as kids saying stuff like, "Ew! Boys/girls have cooties!"

We walk about beaches naked and everything in yurop too we're weird like that..

Probably much more scary than it sounds. Bunch of fat old people flapping around. /shudder

[Freighter]

If I'm on a date looking for marriage, no sex on the first date. I would never consider marriage with a woman who casually has sex with strangers, not only is it gross, but it would be impossible for me to trust that person. If sex on the first date does occur, there is no second date.

I'll be hypocritical all I want, women and men aren't the same and never will be. I'm not raising your 3 children fathered by random men you don't know. No hymen no diamond.

No hymen? All women have a hymen.

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No hymen? All women have a hymen.

...What he means is he wants a girl who hasn't had hers popped.

Which is frankly absurd, you know how much that sucks?

And he can go on about being different, but jerking off to the PC screen instead of going out and not being frigid helps; Its healthier too..

Some men just get scared when they realize women like casual sex too, and insecure hence the hurr durr u better be a virgin or no ring cuz you dirty hoe.