Source? Your personal opinions and beliefs are meaningless when you present them as facts.
The divorce rate only proves that many people get divorced, it has nothing to say about whether the reasons are valid or not. So once again, give us your sources that back up your claims.The divorce rate. Google is your friend.
Not ownership of the other person. Honestly, not hard to understand - you don't own someone because you've married them. Not legally, not socially - at least not in the West. Go live in a sharia law-governed country, you seem to be in agreement with their ideals surrounding marriage. Good thing everyone knows how fantastic and successful marriage as an institution is in those countries. Being "a caveman" isn't a positive thing, and no self-respecting person should ever want to be with someone who holds that opinion - that's textbook signs of the start of an abusive relationship.Yeah well if you have foggy ideas about marriage I am not surprised by this response. I understand times have changed, and I accept that but, none the less I am a caveman and possessive in this situation, and I do agree with this tradition and it's spirit.
By the way the law already recognizes part of marriage as it pertains to ownership
I don't have foggy ideas about marriage. I'm happily married, I understand everything that it entails and I went into it willingly and knowingly. You're the one who comes across as desperately insecure, needing to own your partner instead of being able to trust them to stay with you. That's a great basis to built a shitty relationship, a shitty marriage, and a shitty life. Enjoy it I guess, but just remember that you're a proponent of not being able to ever leave it.
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Exactly. OP is essentially Xe'ra talking about marriage.